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Thread: Confused about a POF convo.

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    Default Re: Confused about a POF convo.

    Go ahead & respond whenever you're ready. You don't have to wait for any specific amount of time. Just don't be predictable and ALWAYS wait or ALWAYS reply right away.

    But totally take the lead of the interaction & change the subject at will. You don't have to stay with her subject of thought.

    I'd tell her my day was awesome & give a quick upbeat explanation. (The great weather, seeing an old friend, having the best lunch ever, trying a new coffee that was amazing, etc....)

    Anything just to share a moment of your day. Girls love that stuff. They like to feel as if they're a part of your world.


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    Default Re: Confused about a POF convo.

    ..Exactly what T-Mal said. Don't wait, get the convo rolling. Take the lead for right now, flirt and be interesting. Don't ask too many questions. Show her how awesome you are.

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    Default Re: Confused about a POF convo.

    Update for those of you following this (I appreciate all the help, here pretty soon I'll be able to limp on my own but for now the support has been tremendous). The "in-between" the first contact and second date is my weak area for sure, I have a hard time building rapport and comfort, as well as attraction. I don't have a hard time meeting people and establishing a connection though. Anway, thanks.

    So I sent (she asked how my day was, the story is 100% made up, lol):

    "Fantastically busy getting things done on my day off. I saw a guy at Macey's that looked exactly like ****** (local celebrity), so I walked up and said Hey. Yeah...it wasn't him...He gave me this odd look so I just mumbled about him looking like ****** and sort of walked away, lol. Probably the most embarrassing thing that's happened to me in awhile.

    You may be in luck, I'm quite irresistible in my Batman costume, though you'll have to provide the Jazz jersey. You might even make a good Catwoman, haha."


    I'm not gonna update play-by-play, but for those interested I will update on the status of what happens here in a few days. (I know a lot of newbies come into threads like this and they are a huge help, being one myself it's really frustrating not to hear the end-result lol).


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