So here's a new situation for me.. I'm headed on a second date tonight with an HB8. First date went flawlessly, 2 venues and ended with a k-close. She's shown a huge amount of interest since, texting every day. It's been a week.
So today I tell her where we're gonna meet up and ask her to wear a certain outfit I saw her wearing in a picture. She says "Maybe I'll let you see it in private after a few more dates "
The texts got flirty and basically she went on hinting at sex after a few more dates. I'm kinda bummed because my plan was to get her back to my place tonight.
How would you guys work this one? I know there's still a chance of getting her back to my place tonight. I'm thinking of taking the frame where I make her think that I don't have sex until after a certain amount of dates either, tease her a bit.. Make her want me and think she can't have me.. And then after some drinks tonight ask if she wants to come see my cat etc.
This is weird to me because the girls I've been dating have never actually brought up sex like that so early, it always just happens.. First or second date, back at my place or hers.. Whatever's closest.
4 or 5 dates before sex? Is she even serious??