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Thread: She hints at sex "after a few more dates"

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    Default She hints at sex "after a few more dates"

    Hey fellas,

    So here's a new situation for me.. I'm headed on a second date tonight with an HB8. First date went flawlessly, 2 venues and ended with a k-close. She's shown a huge amount of interest since, texting every day. It's been a week.

    So today I tell her where we're gonna meet up and ask her to wear a certain outfit I saw her wearing in a picture. She says "Maybe I'll let you see it in private after a few more dates "

    The texts got flirty and basically she went on hinting at sex after a few more dates. I'm kinda bummed because my plan was to get her back to my place tonight.

    How would you guys work this one? I know there's still a chance of getting her back to my place tonight. I'm thinking of taking the frame where I make her think that I don't have sex until after a certain amount of dates either, tease her a bit.. Make her want me and think she can't have me.. And then after some drinks tonight ask if she wants to come see my cat etc.

    This is weird to me because the girls I've been dating have never actually brought up sex like that so early, it always just happens.. First or second date, back at my place or hers.. Whatever's closest.

    4 or 5 dates before sex? Is she even serious??

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    Default Re: She hints at sex "after a few more dates"

    It's imperative that you DON'T go straight up direct when women drop sexual hints like that. In my experience it usually ends up being bait, and when you reciprocate they back down (pretty much an undercover shit test to break your frame). Don't ignore the statement, but don't get super excited either. Just remain flirty, but ultimately unphased and run your game normally. If you can make her question whether or not you really want to have sex with her tonight, that'll be great.

    Ultimately you just want to build up the sexual tension without coming across as sexually obsessed which is pretty easy to do, and I'm sure you already do it naturally. Don't out right lie, but drop hints here and there that you don't just have sex with anyone making you come of as selective. Also, say little things here and there to make her seem like shes just dying to have you. Do this stuff while ramping up the Kino and such, and you should be golden. If by some chance she really does want to wait, that's nothing against her. Everyone is different and you should respect everyone's wishes. If that's really such a huge turnoff then you can drop her, but if not, you'll be fine. Women say such things usually just to weed guys out. If you hold your frame, and escalate properly, she won't let X number of dates keep her from having some fun. Keep us posted

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    Default Re: She hints at sex "after a few more dates"

    If she keeps bringing it up then shes thinking about it. If she brought up the multiple date rule id look at her like she was a moron or simply ignore it. Id go for sex. (My personal style thoa)
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    Default Re: She hints at sex "after a few more dates"

    God,I hate it when girls think that sex is some kind of a reward.

    There are 2 options :

    1)She's actually telling you in a non-slutty way that she's ready to get laid.

    2)She's serious.

    Make the offer of going back to your place,if she brings up her condition,tell her in a nice way that you don't like living by the book,you just go with the flow.That's like saying,well I can kiss you in 3 dates,you don't plan these things.

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    Default Re: She hints at sex "after a few more dates"

    You with the opposite of all of that. Instead make it seem ridiculous. Say:

    "You wish it's only 4 or 5 more dates before sex. I am going to make you hold out for a 100 dates, that's if you're lucky."

    Be playful. it's a a bit of a shit test she's giving you. Pretend you aren't tied down to an outcome.

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    Default Re: She hints at sex "after a few more dates"

    "You wish it's only 4 or 5 more dates before sex. I am going to make you hold out for a 100 dates, that's if you're lucky."
    I love that line! hahaha - GOLD!
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    Default Re: She hints at sex "after a few more dates"

    So today I tell her where we're gonna meet up and ask her to wear a certain outfit I saw her wearing in a picture. She says "Maybe I'll let you see it in private after a few more dates "
    ahh, its always a good sign when a girl is hinting at sex. (it means that she's thinking about having sex with you)

    simply let her keep fantasizing and let her mind do the work for you, tease her relentlessly, and when you finally do go to have sex with her, stretch out foreplay. she will probably be begging you for it by the time you're penetrating her.

    keep up the good work twentynine

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    Default Re: She hints at sex "after a few more dates"

    Quote Originally Posted by meteora View Post
    ahh, its always a good sign when a girl is hinting at sex. (it means that she's thinking about having sex with you)
    Didn't get a chance to see any of your replies until just now. She just left my place haha..

    You nailed it meteora. I got to thinking about it more in the last hour before the date, and pretty much decided that if she's even hinting at sex, she's probably good to go as long as the date goes smoothly.. So, I just went in doing my usual thing. At one point of the date I teased her and told her that I always wait at least 10 dates.. Kino'd etc. Knew I had it in the bag when she asked if we could go back to my place for more drinks.

    She wanted to hint at sex without looking like a slut, that's why she said "in a few more dates". She was also testing my integrity etc as lilsting mentioned. When we finally got in the bedroom (I was quite drunk..) she was begging for it. She wanted it even more than I did.

    Great replies you guys, we can all learn something from this one I think! And thanks meteora


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