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Thread: Am I the only one this happens to?

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    Default Am I the only one this happens to?

    When I daygame a lot my text game start to suck, is it just me that this happens to? Everytime I see an improvement in my real world game/ social my text amen starts to become bad. What do you guys think about this?
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    Default Re: Am I the only one this happens to?

    I can see how this will have an affect. Is your total concentration on day game? It could be compared to an athelete who competes in two different sports, soccer and baseball. During soccer season he is trained to be a outstanding player, but if he were to immediately be asked to play in a baseball game, he might make mistakes because he hasn't been training for baseball. This probably happens to quite a bit of us, including me.

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    Default Re: Am I the only one this happens to?

    Thanks man, that's probably true because I haven't been texting a lot lately only daygame and talking to girls in real life. I decide to text and I'm just saying dumb stuff that's going no where.
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    Default Re: Am I the only one this happens to?

    I'm in the same boat, man. My text game is alright, but I try to avoid it. I can't compare it to flirting in real life. If you want to spice your text game up a bit, get into a bit of a role play where she helps you create an alter ego. It's really fun and you're allowed to say whatever the fck you want
    Always leave her better than you found her.

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    Default Re: Am I the only one this happens to?

    Saguviper pretty much summed it up well.

    Basically, "If you don't use it, you lose it..." It's like any other skill or attribute; you have to keep it in shape to stay on top of your game.

    The good news is, it's easy to turn things around with text game. You have time to think for a moment before you "say" something... unlike in-person, where you need to be quicker with response time to avoid "awkward silence".

    Just always think of how you can be different than any other guy. Make your texts unique & original. She'll start to Anchor feelings of fun & elation to you through your written words.

    And whenever her phone notifies her of any new text, no matter who it's from, she'll instantly & automatically get a rush of adrenaline hoping it's from you.

    That's powerful stuff!




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    Default Re: Am I the only one this happens to?

    If you work on something and embed it deep within your head for long enough, it doesn't ever really go away. Sure, you may forget some things about it, but it all comes back eventually. The moment after I broke up with my girlfriend, I was able to get a girl in bed using Snapchat alone, and if you saw how conversations with the ex were going, you would be shocked that I was able to bounce back so quickly.

    It also helps to be refreshing and to keep concepts fresh in your head in some way. Usually I like to keep things fresh by doing pickup on girls I know have no interest in me whatsoever or that I know I have no interest in. There's nothing to lose for me, and there's only experience to gain. It helps massively, and it has actually gotten me into the inner circle of some of the sororities on my campus.

    There's never such a thing as a bad target, only good opportunities to learn. The only chains we see are the ones that we make.
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