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    Default Re: She read the message but didn't reply...

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    That would be taking the bait of the eager rapport topic too soon.

    Instead, you'd do better to give a slight push here, just to avoid looking like you're ready to pounce... then pull her back in.

    Something like: "I bet you say that to all the guys... you're just trying to get on my good side, you can't fool me. But, I like your enthusiasm. Keep that up & I'm totally likely to fall under your spell. "

    When you cause a girl to feel that mix of emotions of an effective Push-Pull, you can seriously increase attraction.


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    Wow you sir are a genius! Where did you learn about push and pull?

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    Default Re: She read the message but didn't reply...

    I don't remember exactly where I heard that term the first time... but the principle of it is money! There are a lot of threads / posts on the forums about it too.

    But the subconscious psychological effect it has on a person is definitely solid. It's like giving someone something they want... and then taking it a way for a moment... and giving it back to them.

    It creates a sense of value in a way, and flips all kinds of emotional switches.

    Definitely a major part of good flirting & building attraction.


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    Default Re: She read the message but didn't reply...

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    That would be taking the bait of the eager rapport topic too soon.

    Instead, you'd do better to give a slight push here, just to avoid looking like you're ready to pounce... then pull her back in.

    Something like: "I bet you say that to all the guys... you're just trying to get on my good side, you can't fool me. But, I like your enthusiasm. Keep that up & I'm totally likely to fall under your spell. "

    When you cause a girl to feel that mix of emotions of an effective Push-Pull, you can seriously increase attraction.


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    What you said right here is perfect, and something I've learned over the course of a couple of failures. Many times guys eat up the bait a woman sets for them, and when you do that, it usually leads nowhere. When a woman "sets a trap" like that I always Push Pull now which builds some good interest, separates myself from other guys, and makes the woman invest more. My eyes lit up T-Mal when I saw you told him to do the same thing.


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