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    Default Re: How do I deal with this Sh1t Test?

    Also, you just punished positive behavior without any reward.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: How do I deal with this Sh1t Test?

    Quote Originally Posted by TheDuke View Post
    Also, you just punished positive behavior without any reward.
    Once she came clean?
    Yeah that's why I said maybe I shouldn't have called her out on her mind game. I was only joking around though but you're also right, she may not fully get it.

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    Default Re: How do I deal with this Sh1t Test?

    Sorry for the double post but I'd like some feedback on the conversation. It suddenly took a interesting turn of events....

    HER: Aaaand I also did have braces

    ME: I don't know how I feel about that! It's a shame that a pretty girl like you is a liar. You're gonna have to work extra hard in order to gain my trust again

    HER: I'll suck your dick, would that earn me your trust ?

    ME: OR...you could buy me a drink! I don't know how good you are at giving head, but I do know my favorite kind of beer

    HER: Fuck you

    Did I push too hard and not enough pull?

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    Default Re: How do I deal with this Sh1t Test?

    LOL!!!

    THAT is full blown shit test. (Or this is a guy pretending to be a girl)

    I'm thinking it's probably a test though.
    The best way to handle that is like: "Touche' spunky-pants! You're soooo lucky I wasn't drinking anything, because I would have spit it out my nose!! You just sent me into an air-laugh!!! You brat! "

    Don't let the "fuck you" message affect you at all.
    Just roll with it like she's joking.




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    Default Re: How do I deal with this Sh1t Test?

    Fuck it! If there's no recovering from this one I might as well have some fun with it :P

    I don't think it's a dude pretending to be a chick because she sent me a selfie of her right after I got her number. That's her profile

    slimshadey95 Boys, tattoos, motorcycles, bad boys

    I just don't get why she keeps going with the sex shit tests to see if I would crack. I have the best PUAs on this forum to provide me with advice, silly girl stands no chance.

    So my Push-Pull was ok then?

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    Default Re: How do I deal with this Sh1t Test?

    You can always shoot a quick message like
    "By the way, you're damn cute when you get all feisty! Better be careful, because if you keep it up, I'm gonna totally start hitting on you. "

    It's complimentary, yet also presents a little challenge AND you're making a statement of intent...

    Which means, if she continues to interact & message some more, she's giving you permission to increase the escalation.




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    Default Re: How do I deal with this Sh1t Test?

    Also- never forget that girls LOVE a challenge!!!
    So all this time you've been playing it low key, even with her more sexual comments, she's definitely getting more attracted.

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    Default Re: How do I deal with this Sh1t Test?

    Haha I'm getting better at recognizing the shit tests and Push-Pull I just need to figure out how to formulate such smooth replies like yours! haha

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    Default Re: How do I deal with this Sh1t Test?

    You've pushed it too far. She's shit testing you for sure, but you have to back off the throttle now.

    I think T-Mal has the right idea, but I don't think his response really fits into the frame you've created--it's too playful while you've gone cocky-funny the whole time.

    I have a few possible responses that I think could work:

    (1) Well, if you put it that way, we could probably arrange that

    (2) Fair point. It totally depends on what the bar has on tap, because if all they're serving is Molson, I'll take the BJ :P

    (3) Slow down, I like a little foreplay before we get to the main event

    Note that I use emoticons in every message. You really need to tone it down at this point.
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    Default Re: How do I deal with this Sh1t Test?

    Quote Originally Posted by TheDuke View Post
    You've pushed it too far. She's shit testing you for sure, but you have to back off the throttle now.

    I think T-Mal has the right idea, but I don't think his response really fits into the frame you've created--it's too playful while you've gone cocky-funny the whole time.

    I have a few possible responses that I think could work:

    (1) Well, if you put it that way, we could probably arrange that

    (2) Fair point. It totally depends on what the bar has on tap, because if all they're serving is Molson, I'll take the BJ :P

    (3) Slow down, I like a little foreplay before we get to the main event

    Note that I use emoticons in every message. You really need to tone it down at this point.
    I do generally go for the cocky-funny. There's nothing playful about turning down a blow job for a beer

    Can you elaborate on what you mean by "tone it down"? Play along with her for a bit? Let my frame go? Just not exactly sure what that means

    And thanks for the reply!


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