I mean, when a girl gets defensive with you it's because your value is too high relative to hers. This usually occurs because you've been pushing too much (on the other hand, women become very nice and let you down gently if your value become low relative to theirs).
This is a common problem with the cocky funny approach. It's hard to switch from push to pull without breaking frame. That's why, the messages I gave accept her frame without breaking yours. They are neutral to pull messages. But if you keep pushing, the interaction is done.