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    Default Re: How do I deal with this Sh1t Test?

    I mean, when a girl gets defensive with you it's because your value is too high relative to hers. This usually occurs because you've been pushing too much (on the other hand, women become very nice and let you down gently if your value become low relative to theirs).

    This is a common problem with the cocky funny approach. It's hard to switch from push to pull without breaking frame. That's why, the messages I gave accept her frame without breaking yours. They are neutral to pull messages. But if you keep pushing, the interaction is done.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: How do I deal with this Sh1t Test?

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    You can always shoot a quick message like
    "By the way, you're damn cute when you get all feisty! Better be careful, because if you keep it up, I'm gonna totally start hitting on you. "

    It's complimentary, yet also presents a little challenge AND you're making a statement of intent...

    Which means, if she continues to interact & message some more, she's giving you permission to increase the escalation.




    And that's a good thing!!!


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    This response I really like. That doesn't lose the frame and is a good pull.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: How do I deal with this Sh1t Test?

    Quote Originally Posted by TheDuke View Post
    This response I really like. That doesn't lose the frame and is a good pull.
    Right now I'm just sitting at my computer desk at work in complete amazement thinking "how the fuck do these guys do it"

    But I understand what you mean now, I'll try to pull her in now once she replies.

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    Default Re: How do I deal with this Sh1t Test?

    That "statement of intent" approach also works AMAZINGLY well in person too!

    Probably even better in person, because you can also incorporate touching into the equation. It can create rapid attraction & virtually guarantee you'll get the kiss every time.

    But it's all about confidence & congruence... and FUN.
    If you act naturally about it, she'll totally buy into that frame & you can really ramp things up.

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    Default Re: How do I deal with this Sh1t Test?

    That's my kiss close approach. "I want/am going to kiss you." Grab and kiss.

    Also works great when you get into the latter stages of seduction.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."


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