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    Default How do I deal with this Sh1t Test?

    So I was texting this chick and out of no where she goes into sex talk.

    ME: I thought country girls are supposed to be a handful not shy! Why so quiet? :P

    HER: I'm not quiet in the bedroom

    Like I said, I recognize the bait/Sh1t Test would this be a good answer:

    Push-Pull with something like "That's nice, I prefer my girls don't scream my ear off though. You have pretty teeth, did you have braces as a kid?"

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    Default Re: How do I deal with this Sh1t Test?

    That's actually good!
    Maybe add a small compliance test in with it...

    "That's nice, I prefer my girls don't scream my ear off though. You have to promise me that you'll respect the ear drums. BTW, have pretty teeth, did you have braces as a kid?"

    You'd be making a slight acknowledgement about her comment and then giving HER a bit of a compliance test, followed by a completely unrelated little compliment to change the subject for a minute.

    That would express confidence & non-neediness.



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    Default Re: How do I deal with this Sh1t Test?

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    That's actually good!
    Maybe add a small compliance test in with it...

    "That's nice, I prefer my girls don't scream my ear off though. You have to promise me that you'll respect the ear drums. BTW, have pretty teeth, did you have braces as a kid?"

    You'd be making a slight acknowledgement about her comment and then giving HER a bit of a compliance test, followed by a completely unrelated little compliment to change the subject for a minute.

    That would express confidence & non-neediness.

    Woot! Slowly learning haha. I sent her that and she replied with "Ohh...I'm a screamer :/ and no I didn't, just naturally beautiful I guess "

    Why does she keep bringing up sex again, I already brushed it off once and showed disinterest. Is she still testing me to see if I would hold frame?

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    Default Re: How do I deal with this Sh1t Test?

    It's still a shit test. Hold your frame. Something along the lines of:

    That's too bad, I guess it will never work out between us. And here I was hoping I'd get to explore those beautiful teeth a little closer
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: How do I deal with this Sh1t Test?

    Quote Originally Posted by TheDuke View Post
    It's still a shit test. Hold your frame. Something along the lines of:

    That's too bad, I guess it will never work out between us. And here I was hoping I'd get to explore those beautiful teeth a little closer
    I said "That's a shame, I wish you weren't. And I was just about to tell you to meet me at my favorite place this weekend."

    She just replied with "I'm not actually a screamer" I guess that's the point where she stops shit testing me for now?
    Also is it ever a good idea to call out a girl on her shit test like "Nice test, too bad I'm too good for you "

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    Default Re: How do I deal with this Sh1t Test?

    Yep, she's not shit testing you and she's given you the answer you were looking for. Now you need to reward her with a pull. Something like:

    We might just make it to the bedroom yet :P
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: How do I deal with this Sh1t Test?

    Never mention anything about being tested.
    A lot of times girls don't even realize they're doing it. It's more of a subconscious thing...

    So if you bring it up, it's gonna create an unnecessary awkward vibe.


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    Default Re: How do I deal with this Sh1t Test?

    Quote Originally Posted by TheDuke View Post
    Yep, she's not shit testing you and she's given you the answer you were looking for. Now you need to reward her with a pull. Something like:

    We might just make it to the bedroom yet :P
    That's good, I'll keep that in mind next time!

    She sent me another text:

    HER: Aaaand I also did have braces
    ME: I don't know how I feel about that! It's a shame that a pretty girl like you is a liar. You're gonna have to work extra hard in order to gain my trust again

    I decided to tease her a bit, but now that I read it I don't think I should have called her out or a liar after reading what T-Mal said :S

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    Default Re: How do I deal with this Sh1t Test?

    You did OK by adding the smiley...
    That helps clarify that you're just messing with her & being playful.

    So I don;t think you have anything to worry about.


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    Default Re: How do I deal with this Sh1t Test?

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    You did OK by adding the smiley...
    That helps clarify that you're just messing with her & being playful.

    So I don;t think you have anything to worry about.
    Ok perfect!

    I know there may be factors that I can't control affecting her response time. Maybe I'm overthinking this but what can I do to make her reply more often?


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