Ok so i had my first date with a chick i met at the local bar,we went out to eat, had wine,salad and chicken country fried steak and what not.then we chilled in car for a min or so and she suggested to hang out at the beach .we went to the beach and chilled we talked a lot,i also kept the whole EX thing at a very minimum with just like 2 questions and only mentioned once about my past relationship and that's all we talked about past relationships.we talked more about what kind of activities,past greatest moments,wants in life and etc about life and we smoked a bowl.
I tried to be sneaky by asking her who does her nails,so i could hold her hand.well that worked fine then i complimented on her hair and started to caress her hair/head lol it didnt backfire at all.i wanted to make out with her but no guts lol .i dropped her off home and she texted me that she had a great mellow night with me and thank me for showing her a great time and nighty night "
1.is it good that i didnt go balls out for a kiss?
2.does the text show that she had fun and wants to do it again or does it show like a we had fun and just keep it at that ?
3.shes not looking for a relationship,neither am i.tips on keeping her away from a friend zone??
4.i dont text her like if i wanted to be her bf(text 100 times a day),i text here and there . is that good or bad?(shes not looking for a relationship,but obviosuly she is DTF cuz her freind told me to treat her right and ill get in there)