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Thread: Guys, What would you do?

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    Default Guys, What would you do?

    A girl i kept in my loop has recently gotten out of an 11 month relationship. its been 2 weeks. we'd casually text a couple times a week. however now that shes single i made a move. i asked her to see a movie i didnt call it a date. because i hadnt seen her in about 5 months and wanted to just make it easy.

    She made several excuses...the "hangout" never happened. shes become really distant with me....doesnt really make an effort to talk. she use to always text me. and if id text her and she never responded shed get back to me and apologize but now it just seems its ignored. However, she will like my facebook statuses.....which confuses me.

    From what i can tell she isnt sulking at all. in fact shes with her friends pretty much everyday. and IN FACT, her and the ex are hanging out this week as im assuming as "friends"....see ms kind of soon to me.

    My theory is the boyfriend and her still have feelings for each other and may be useing this hangout to see if things could work again. i dont know. should my main course of action be a 2 week no contact?

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    Default Re: Guys, What would you do?

    A girl i kept in my loop has recently gotten out of an 11 month relationship. its been 2 weeks. we'd casually text a couple times a week. however now that shes single i made a move. i asked her to see a movie i didnt call it a date. because i hadnt seen her in about 5 months and wanted to just make it easy.

    She made several excuses...the "hangout" never happened. shes become really distant with me....doesnt really make an effort to talk. she use to always text me. and if id text her and she never responded shed get back to me and apologize but now it just seems its ignored. However, she will like my facebook statuses.....which confuses me.

    From what i can tell she isnt sulking at all. in fact shes with her friends pretty much everyday. and IN FACT, her and the ex are hanging out this week as im assuming as "friends"....see ms kind of soon to me.

    My theory is the boyfriend and her still have feelings for each other and may be useing this hangout to see if things could work again. i dont know. should my main course of action be a 2 week no contact?
    look, I'm just going to lay pout the reality of this situation.

    you've been friend zoned for quite some time. she knew you would try something if she agreed to "hangout" with her now that she's single.
    she flaked because she lost attraction for you a long time ago, and now that she's single she still doesn't have any feelings for you.

    to make things worse, she's probably in an abusive relationship. something that's common with abusive relationships is that the girl will break up with the guy after a violent outburst, but then he will make up to her and they'll get back together. this will happen many times before the girl will finally put her foot down and leave.

    she probably hates being single, and the sense of security that he gives her far out ways any potential abuse/fighting they might have.

    you are right about one thing, she is definitely emotionally attached to him.

    why go no contact just because you want to date her? if you were only being friends with her just so you could get in her pants, then you were never friends to begin with.

    if you're a true friend, you won't let her relationship status affect your friendship.
    if you were only friends with her so you could fark her, then just stop talking to her and find other women to talk to. odds are, even if she does break it off with him for good, she won't be farking you.

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    Default Re: Guys, What would you do?

    Like I suggested in the previous thread,there's only one way and it's to move on.

    Think of it this way :

    1)You can keep obsessing about her,never making any progress.
    2)You can game other women.You won't forget her that easy,since you have major oneitis,but you will at some point.

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    Default Re: Guys, What would you do?

    As hard as it might be to hear, Let her go and move on with your life ..... There are LOTS of women out there

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    Default Re: Guys, What would you do?

    If this the same girl as the other threads? Jeez


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