Top 10 Stats
Latest Posts Loading... Loading...
Loading...
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Results 1 to 4 of 4
Like Tree1Likes
  • 1 Post By T-Mal

Thread: thoughts on her not giving any hook points

  1. #1
    SHAD0WBLADE95 is offline PUA in Training
    Points: 200, Level: 3
    Level completed: 50%, Points required for next Level: 50
    Overall activity: 17.0%
    Achievements:
    100 Experience Points31 days registered
    Join Date
    Dec 2012
    Location
    Columbus, OH
    Posts
    52
    Points
    200
    Level
    3
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 2 Times in 2 Posts
    Rep Power
    13

    Default thoughts on her not giving any hook points

    Hey guys, so here's the quick low-down on my situation (which isn't big but your help could seriously help me through future "endeavors" as well): So there's this girl I know from back home and only occasionally talk to say... every few months because she's across the country for school right now. Basically, this girl is an easy 8 and two years older than me, but.... who would that stop?

    Anyway, she randomly hit me up yesterday just saying hey, well actually "how's dooz" (whatever that means). I tried to casually start things up a bit saying "hey! how've you been?" ANNNND she gave me the old "I'm good u?" which left me with no hook points or anything. All the time I see girls not giving guys anything to work with, which leads to my first question:

    what are some good things to lead with to get her to give up some hook points and continue the conversation with?

    in case it matters, there's been about 2 or more hours between each of our texts since I've been trying to follow that whole 'wait longer than she does rule.' To try to get things going I gave a bit about some of my current struggles and then said "but I climb and have been doing some other cool stuff so that helps" hoping she would add into that. Good or bad move? That was sent later last night and she didn't reply til 3:30 pm today saying: "I'm sorry! well keep climbing then." I'm still stuck in the same place and am not sure how to get out.

    Any thoughts on what I should do?
    The only two things I could think of now are trying to be funny and saying "I was beginning to think you forgot to respond haha" and/or "I'm sure you're probably having a great time out there though!" (Arizona State) What are your opinions on these or some other little phrases that can be used to get her involved in the conversation? (I this is kind of long, so thanks for baring with me guys)

  2. #2
    T-Mal's Avatar
    T-Mal is offline PUA All Star
    Points: 31,222, Level: 100
    Level completed: 0%, Points required for next Level: 0
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    Social25000 Experience Points31 days registered
    Awards:
    Posting Award
    Join Date
    Apr 2012
    Location
    Southern Michigan USA
    Posts
    2,558
    Points
    31,222
    Level
    100
    Thanks
    3
    Thanked 9 Times in 8 Posts
    Rep Power
    1391

    Default Re: thoughts on her not giving any hook points

    "How's Dooz/" is another way of saying "How are you doing?"
    Just like "Totes Adorbs" means "Totally Adorable"...

    When you asked her "How have you been?" she answered your question..
    YOU didn't give HER any hook points.

    Forget the whole formula of doubling her time, or matching her time + 15 minutes.. etc. That will become predictable.
    Text when it's convenient to text. Period.

    If you want to message right back & try getting to "Rapid Fire Reply" mode, then go for it. If you can't text back right away (because you're driving or whatever) then wait until you CAN text back.
    Don't over-think the response time.

    Read my "List Of Magic Texts" for PLENTY of ideas on how to get a fun interaction going.



    Need one on one private coaching? PM me for details.

  3. #3
    SHAD0WBLADE95 is offline PUA in Training
    Points: 200, Level: 3
    Level completed: 50%, Points required for next Level: 50
    Overall activity: 17.0%
    Achievements:
    100 Experience Points31 days registered
    Join Date
    Dec 2012
    Location
    Columbus, OH
    Posts
    52
    Points
    200
    Level
    3
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 2 Times in 2 Posts
    Rep Power
    13

    Default Re: thoughts on her not giving any hook points

    I forgot to mention that I don't always follow that though, because I know it's good to be a bit random with timing. Also, I really like some of your magic texts, especially because a lot of that stuff sounds a bit like how I talk when I am playing around with a girl. I also wanted to get some opinions on this line I thought of as a way to maybe spark a conversation, so let me know what you think.
    Say something like "WOW thanks for the picture! you look amazing." and when she replies wondering what you're talking about, answer "Oops, that wasn't supposed to go to you. I'm sure you look pretty pretty good too " (probably could be reworded but that's why I'm posting it)

  4. #4
    T-Mal's Avatar
    T-Mal is offline PUA All Star
    Points: 31,222, Level: 100
    Level completed: 0%, Points required for next Level: 0
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    Social25000 Experience Points31 days registered
    Awards:
    Posting Award
    Join Date
    Apr 2012
    Location
    Southern Michigan USA
    Posts
    2,558
    Points
    31,222
    Level
    100
    Thanks
    3
    Thanked 9 Times in 8 Posts
    Rep Power
    1391

    Default Re: thoughts on her not giving any hook points

    I wouldn't recommend that "picture" scenario.
    If you have a girl's number, you shouldn't have to "spark a conversation"... there should already be mutual interest.

    And you should already have a picture of her of some sort. Not "nudes" necessarily... but just A picture. You can easily get a girl to let you take one of her when you get her number... tell her you need it for the contact icon. (Virtually always works!!)

    And she'll most likely want a picture of you for the same reason... especially if you suggest it.

    But... I've personally found the whole "accidentally sent the text to the wrong person" situation, more awkward than useful.


    Need one on one private coaching? PM me for details.


Similar Threads

  1. Sticking points answered!
    By Zeus101 in forum General Questions
    Replies: 19
    Last Thread: 05-09-2014, 06:55 AM
  2. 2 Sticking Points!
    By espmma in forum Approaching, Running Sets & Building Attraction
    Replies: 5
    Last Thread: 01-30-2014, 06:54 PM
  3. Texting Hook Points
    By sidewinder89 in forum General Questions
    Replies: 3
    Last Thread: 03-13-2013, 12:18 PM
  4. tyler durden's 25 points?
    By Ecko30 in forum General Questions
    Replies: 1
    Last Thread: 06-05-2012, 08:28 PM
  5. Hook points?
    By Steelwing in forum General Questions
    Replies: 0
    Last Thread: 09-02-2011, 10:30 AM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
DMCA.com