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    99Problems is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Moving from online to meeting up in real life?

    Hey guys,

    I have had a bit of success with Tinder. Got matched with a girl, opened, got a response and then got chatting. Eventually got her number and snapchat username. We have had some convos via text message and been having lots of fun/banter and playfulness on Snapchat.

    It is clear she really likes me but I gather she is a bit shy. I made the mistake of going for the meet up/date a bit too early but managed to quickly recover and got back on track. Also made the mistake of taking her suggestion to come over to her house literally - apparently she was only joking/teasing. Like I said, I have managed to recover and move things on. It has been a few days since that small "screw up" - I have built more attraction & comfort since then - and I'm thinking perhaps I should ask her again. I don't want to come across as needy/pushy/creepy though so what would be the best way to do this?

    Should I ask what her schedule is like or just assume a day/time and play it dominant? Should I get a conversation going before asking?

    Really don't want to screw this one up after how "far" I have gotten and how good it has been going.

    Advice please...

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    Bobolov is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Moving from online to meeting up in real life?

    I'm a regular user of tinder, attraction built online is a fallacy. You can't build rapport with a few messages I am suggesting the anti manifesto of early dates. Not every date will be great but attraction can be accelerated if you have game and can hold a conversation, the women on these sites want to date a man who wants to date they don't want to chat endlessly. Get out there and do multiple venue dates building rapport and have fun - confidence will see you through my man

    Good luck!

    P.s always suggest a date meet in a well known public place

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    99Problems is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Moving from online to meeting up in real life?

    I have got a date set up but its for the 7th April... just over a week away. After I suggested two different days at first she then suggested that date/week specifically as she is apparently busy with uni all next week due to an assignment, work and a birthday party. So we agreed for the 7th.. what should I do in the meantime? Keep texting/snapchatting? Don't want to fall into the friendzone or have her flake which I know is still a possibility. However, I am certain she is genuine and really likes me.

    Any advice?

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    Bobolov is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Moving from online to meeting up in real life?

    Good news mate!

    Be inconsistent, surprising and whatever you do don't become predictable. 1 day chat a-lot then leave it a day and leave a quick message before bed, don't be afraid to say nothing for two days you dont want to make her feel in a commitment.You want to be in the back ground but not a nuisance.

    All that aside if you get on great and have alot to talk about then chat the legs off her, if your not at that stage then revert to the first part of my message.

    Happy hunting sun bean


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