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    Default Re: How do I know shes ready?

    Quote Originally Posted by Kyl3 View Post
    I disagree.

    Not all attractive woman are banging some other dude instantly within 2 weeks. At least not the girls I find attractive. Maybe sluts who have guys as orbiters they use as rebounds, but not classy girls.

    You should know this already Kyle...All girls are sluts! Seriously though, in my experiences, even "nice" girls will do this. I don't like to classify women anymore because even the "best" and "classiest" women will do sluty things if a guy has the right moves. It can be a hard thing to grasp.

    You're right though, not ALL women will do this. BUT thinking that women won't because they have "class" is a faulty line of thinking. ANY woman will sleep with a guy the FIRST night they meet him, or immediately after they break up with their boyfriend, if the guy is skilled enough in seduction. Our socialization tells us otherwise, and that's why it's so hard for men to grasp, but I've experienced it many times. Even with what all the guys think are the "classiest" women.

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    Default Re: How do I know shes ready?

    Alright, first she's still a virgin 95% sure. she told me this in september (obviously since september things could have changed but even still its one guy). and the reason i say 95% sure is because shes stubborn and he was a nice guy.

    She hasnt been with any other guys since the breakup BESIDES her 2 male bestfriends. one of which i think is deeply friend zoned....she's 18 and shes known him 7 years and nothing has ever happened....in 2012 i think they "tried" it was one of those things where they posted on facebook "who thinks HB and i should date?!" (i think it was from peer pressure) but never got into a relationship.....and no its not a friends with benefits now. whenever she mentions him in anything "bestfriend" is always attached to it. But she seems to be hanging with him a little more often at the moment.

    The first 2 weeks she was going to parties. she doesnt drink doesnt do drugs. so she was going to socialize. i assume to distract her from the breakup....obviously .

    The couple guys she was texting directly after the breakup i dont think are in the picture that much anymore.....again i think she was just using them to distract her....which is interesting cause she didnt use me like that?

    My next move is to start calling her and building attraction. this girl moves slow with everything. most of our relationship was work/phone based for the most part (because of her fear of the boyfriend hanging with girls). im not interested in a quick bang. i can go down to starbucks and get that. i like this girl.

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    Default Re: How do I know shes ready?

    You start building attraction after 8 months .... ?

    So let me get this straight,you know this girl purely from text/facebook,you have seen her like twice in your life,and you assume that you know everything that's happening to her and around her ?More than that,you actually used your dedication skills to decide what happened to her and what not ?

    If you go after a girl with a mind-set of "Oh my God she's the one,If only I could get her,everything would be perfect",It won't work.

    You need to chill,back off,mind your own business - forget about her.
    If you think you can easily get the girls at Starbucks,do that.

    I was pretty sure you were the guy from the "Why is she acting this way ?" topic from the very first post,and now you pretty much confirmed that.

    As you see,and like in the previous topic,you barely listen to people,yet you're creating constant topics asking for help.We're giving you possible solutions,yet you keep ignoring them,because you're obsessed.Then what's the point ?You should have kept doing what you think is right and not bother.

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    Default Re: How do I know shes ready?

    Alright, first she's still a virgin 95% sure. she told me this in september (obviously since september things could have changed but even still its one guy). and the reason i say 95% sure is because shes stubborn and he was a nice guy.
    her being a virgin only makes your situation worse. a lot of girls who are virgins want to "hold out for true love" (in other words they create extremely unreal expectations about what the guy who will take it will be like)

    while she may not be sleeping around with other guys, she's probably leading them all on like she's really interested and not farking any of them. trust me, I failed at gaming a girl who was like this, she literally lined up dozens of guys to have them "competing for her v-card" of course I wasn't the "best guy" in her lineup.
    (I'm pretty sure she ended up sleeping with the guy who is her current boyfriend)

    girls who do this crap drain you emotionally. you need to take a step back and pursue other girls. you don't want to have a broken heart over a girl you barely knew.

    quit obsessing over her and take a walk down to star bucks (I hear they have hookers now lol )


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