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    Default How do I know shes ready?

    Girl recently (couple weeks ago) got out of a year long relationship. it seems like shes in slut mode. for example, wants guys texting her.....wants attention basically. shes with her female friends every single day. we've been casual friends for awhile (8months?). i never did anything with her because the boyfriend wouldnt allow it. so we've never hanged out.

    I havent been around her and havent talked to her in a week. whens the best time for me to swoop in? i'm not looking for a piece of ass or to be a rebound. Actually thinking about going no contact since she is in attention mode.

    First post here, hope its in the right section.

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    Default Re: How do I know shes ready?

    it seems like shes in slut mode.for example, wants guys texting her.....wants attention basically.
    girls are always in sloot mode. even when they're in relationships they still crave attention and enjoy flirting any guy who crosses paths with them.

    everyone craves attention, wether they are in a relationship or not.

    Actually thinking about going no contact since she is in attention mode.
    why would you do that? all you're going to do is end up losing the opportunity.

    whens the best time for me to swoop in?
    the time to act is now. opportunities don't wait for you to grow a pair.

    while good things may come to those who wait, they only get leftovers from those who act.

    text her, set up a meet, and have fun with it.

    good luck.

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    Default Re: How do I know shes ready?

    Quote Originally Posted by ThreeNil View Post
    i never did anything with her because the boyfriend wouldnt allow it
    The boyfriends never want to allow it, but girls end up cheating anyway.

    No offense, but man up bro! If a girl has a bf, screw what the bf thinks, and even screw what she thinks. She's single. The time to act is now!

    Good luck buddy

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    Default Re: How do I know shes ready?

    Alright, so basically I wrote my initial post real quick (had to go into work). I forgot to mention that i DID ask her out but she pretty much gave me excuses and ended up being with her friends.... it was a little over a week after the break up. its been a week since then and i havent contacted her again. BUT

    Friday she texts me that she was at my place of work and says

    "I'm at (place of work) if you're here" then 4 minutes later "JK i left"<-- i wasnt there and i was away from my phone.

    She was probably purchasing her items thought of me while she was in checkout. thats what im assuming.

    I never replied to those texts basically because i didnt see a reason too.

    This basically tells me that she'd like to see me. but i still think its too soon for me and her to be one on one.

    All i know is that shes been with her bestfriends nearly every single day and there is a ex boyfriend from like two years ago that i think she may be back into contact with via texting. she post pictures nearly every single day that show up in my facebook feed of pretty much her and her bestfriends so i dont think she is with any guys by choice other then the ones that are with her bestfriends. however, the dude from two years ago is "liking" nearly everything she post.

    How should i move forward? i asked her out and got exscuses one week after the break up. now im in one week of silence by choice. should i move forward with another week of freezeout and then ask her again? by that time it will of been one month since the break up. i think my odds would be better because right now shes got the ex from two years ago and probably some other AFC texting her and i have vanished pretty much. so if i out of the blue ask her out i think it may work.

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    Default Re: How do I know shes ready?

    Let her know you're interested. Build more attraction. Verbal escalation. And do it fast. Looks like you're losing opportunity pussyfooting around. Closing on her only puts your card on the table for a LTR in these situations.

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    Default Re: How do I know shes ready?

    Stop...being...so... obsessed.Go game other girls already.

    It's been 8 months she's been playing you,stop believing that she's thinking of you if she doesn't even want to meet up.

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    Default Re: How do I know shes ready?

    How should i move forward? i asked her out and got exscuses one week after the break up. now im in one week of silence by choice. should i move forward with another week of freezeout and then ask her again? by that time it will of been one month since the break up. i think my odds would be better because right now shes got the ex from two years ago and probably some other AFC texting her and i have vanished pretty much. so if i out of the blue ask her out i think it may work.
    man, you should have been texting her like every other day, making her laugh and building more comfort. like I said, opportunities don't wait.

    in my experiences, most attractive girls get a bounce back fling within a week or two of the breakup, and usually have another boyfriend within a month.

    odds are she's already sleeping with someone else.

    you keep pussyfooting around Freezing Her Out, while some other guy is probably farking her till she can't feel her legs.

    odds are, you're in the friendzone obsessing over a girl who you should have gamed, farked, and left already.

    I think raid is right on the money, you should have farked her 7 months ago, and if you were to exploit the opportunity presented by her breakup, you would have farked her 2 weeks ago.

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    Default Re: How do I know shes ready?

    Quote Originally Posted by meteora View Post
    in my experiences, most attractive girls get a bounce back fling within a week or two of the breakup, and usually have another boyfriend within a month.
    I wholeheartedly agree with the first part of this statement. Most attractive women are banging some guy within two weeks of the breakup. This guy will very rarely last. In my experience they usually won't have a new boyfriend within a month unless they are the type that needs to jump from one relationship to another. Allot of attractive women I know will be single for 5 months to a year after a LTR breakup where they date multiple guys in that time frame.

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    Default Re: How do I know shes ready?

    I disagree.

    Not all attractive woman are banging some other dude instantly within 2 weeks. At least not the girls I find attractive. Maybe sluts who have guys as orbiters they use as rebounds, but not classy girls.

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    Default Re: How do I know shes ready?

    @ThreeNil, the main point of these responses is this: You most likely missed your chance. If you're going to do something, you better do it asap and like a baws


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