Worked Out a Great Opening Message Template, Need Help Perfecting It...
Hey, so I worked out a great loose opening message template for online dating... I'd say it gets about a 60-70%% response rate, which for online dating is pretty good!
Now even though I have used this as a basis for ultimate success (meeting/sex/relationships/whatever I felt like doing) on a nice handful of occasions over the six months or so, what I need help with is perfecting the conversation chain after the initial opener in order to get a better turnover of meets (Number Close isn't generally a problem but texting just involves a continuation of the messages).
The message (which is something I adapted from a post I read on another forum) goes like this...
Hey, so you seem like you wouldn't be too bad to spend time with I mean you're creative (always call them creative, girls love to hear that and they all believe that they are) you've got great taste in ____________________ (insert something that you've read from their profile)plus __________________ (insert some funny observation from one of their pictures/tease them about something). But I've been tricked before! So I need to play a game to make sure (insert something here about them being a number two in a world takeover bid, or say it's nothing sexual)... You ready?
Like I said... 60-70% of the time you'll get something back like 'Hell yeah! or Let's play!
Then spend a few messages hyping the game... it's called love it or hate it... you send them questions like 'pizza' or whatever and they say 'love it or hate it'... the idea is that they think these questions reveal deep insights into their personality, and you should play on that....
Depending on who you are talking too this can turn real sexual real fast, or it can get pretty deep, which a lot of them like, or it can be light... you've just gotta calibrate.
The problem is that about three quarters of the time the game will fall flat after about four or five questions and get boring (both for me and her) and in the end the convo breaks down... My question is, how can I stop this from happening? Is there a perfect series of questions we can work on? Should I just work on jumping the convo to something else? (Which does work depending on who you are talking to... but you know what a lot of online dating girls are like... one word answers and no depth!)
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