So granted last year I was confident in a certain style approach to texting. Dating, Lifestyle, and Pick Up Lines. I thought this was the Holy Grail. Until the other night. I like to go with the flow and I found a new method I will be deploying with kinetic passion. Here it is but first the Alamo.
Remember The Alamo
Yes I remember and like most guys let's play out some old interactions.
HB9 VIP Table Girl
4 texts that night, in the morning got a "sorry I ditched you" text which I totally lost frame control due to the incredible amount of submission which was a paradigm shift I couldn't handle. In the end I acted cool which was kinda fake and then froze out for one day. I made out with her but froze her out for one day and she said and I qoute "I am going back to my Ex and I don't remember you." Well if she didn't remember she wouldn't have remembered the convo we had about her Ex to begin with. Blasted in 2 days.
HB9 Concert Girl
14 Texts that night, later in the day finally got a rejection letter. It was "Hey I got my eye on someone sorry." Done but then I pushed it and said "You were into my last night!" and some other Fluff. She came back then sh!t tested me on the age thing to which I sent 7 more needy texts in a row and lost it. Blasted in 3 days.
HB9 Dime Piece
Said to text her that morning but was hung over so acted like a rebel and it backfired. She didn't respond to my 2 texts that night and I got needy and desperate. Started acting weird about my anticipation and called her a 38 yr old cougar prowling the Club but I said it in a needy way not a playful way. In the end she said she was Married and her name was Ali Allah to which I called her out on it but still then she threatened to call the Cops so I hit the exit button. Blasted in 3 days.
HB9 VIP Table Girl
Pulled from the VIP table to talk to me and she was into it. Got her number stating "we would go out" to which she denied later stating "she never said that." Duh I said it but whatever. Anyways texted her 7 days strait to which I got no reply and then finally when I called her I got a "Oh I am dating someone." Thanks for letting me know. Blasted in 3 days.
As you can see there was a very clear pattern here. I was playing the Nice Guy route first to get the girls to like me for validation before asking them on a date. And these girls while they were totally into at that moment it went south quick by them playing me hard. It is worth to mention I never really flirted with texting these girls and never brought up the sexual aspect and if I did I was very insecure about it. I was trying to cater to their needs which is what I thought what "they" would want. So that has changed now time to do what I want.
New Texting Model "The Alamo"
This is brand new so still in development but here is what I will be working on deploying in full force this year. Went with bringing up the sexual aspect right away and it released a mind blowing amount of tension for myself. Not only did I not over text but I was able to safely communicate it properly while maintaining a positive tone.
I told this girl "I really need some T & A and only looking for a hookup buddy." I know right this is totally jerk face but I had to and now I have texted them a few times after and my flow is so much better. I can now be honest with myself without sounding like I am putting on a front. If more develops on this I will let you know. But this new texting model redux is basically coming from a hookup mindset and framing it right away to prevent looking like a Nice Guy just trying to date them. The Nice Guy I would get rejected right away within hours. My girls haven't responded yet which amazes me since it means they are still thinking, still waiting to see what I do, and I totally just put this new Dime Piece into my Summer Plan I said if she was willing. as you can see I got blasted in 2-3 days normally for the Nice Guy route. Now that I am trying the bad boy route nothing after 2 days which means only one thing "I am still alive." Not only that but also what I am trying to say is I am not over texting and actually telling them now "Hey I'm holding off for a bit but don't forget about me I'll be back." Instead of just vanishing and actually just feeling it more now. Will report as more develops.