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    Default Dating Multiple Online...?

    How exactly do you guys deal with the fact that girls you start seeing online still know your browsing other girls online...?

    Girls seem to be dropping off the map after I strongly suspect they creep my profile and see that im still logging into OKC.

    Seems to me that seeing multiple girls met online isnt exactly ideal...

    Strategies?

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    Default Re: Dating Multiple Online...?

    It depends what you mean by dating. If you are exclusive with a woman and still chat up and meet with other women online then she obviously has good reason to move on. If you're talking about random hookups with multiple women, there has to come a point in time when you establish that you're not looking for anything serious, and if she chooses to leave so be it. If she stays but starts acting clingy then just drop her from your rotation because the two of you have 2 different purposes at that point.

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    Default Re: Dating Multiple Online...?

    I n-closed a girl on OKC. Chatted for 2 days. She agreed to meet me on the weekend. However, on friday she came to my profile and texted me asking why I am still online on okc. I should have come here to ask the appropriate reply, but I panicked and completely failed to handle the situation. She said I don't want you to ever contact me again. I messaged twice, called her once and no reply.

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    Default Re: Dating Multiple Online...?

    Same reason she was online lol. She sounds like the domineering clingy type. Consider yourself lucky things ended that way. You definitely could have handled the shit test better though.

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    Default Re: Dating Multiple Online...?

    You have every right to talk to girls online EVEN IF you're seeing a girl you met online, as long as your not in an exclusive relationship. End of story. Tell them the truth and stop being so worried how they will react. "We aren't in a relationship and I'm going to continue to see other women. IF we become exclusive I'll get rid of it. You can do the same".

    You said so- That girl sounds like a psycho. It's a good thing she's gone. You hadn't even hung out with her yet!

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    Default Re: Dating Multiple Online...?

    every girl is different If she acts clingy "like this" just tell her that you are not exclusive with her and you still can talk to other women and she can talk to other men. Its her choice if she wanna stay or leave, if she leaves let her go you will many other.
    Nice guys don't finish last, boring guys does.

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    Default Re: Dating Multiple Online...?

    Yea so let me reiterate, Im talking like after a month of seeing eachother maybe once a week, then they dissappear, im assuming its because they see im still active, and its been hinted that they know. And its before theres a chance to talk exclusivity, but its not brought up by the time they disappear. Im pretty sure its jealousy, insecurity, they think im not serious... etc.

    And im not talking random hookups either because thats not what im looking for, rather harbour a relationship whether exclusive (eventually) or fvckbuddy.

    Its different on the street, obviously they cant creep me to see if im still sarging in the streets to see if im dating around.

    DirectIsBest - Yea i get that, it has nothing to do with worrying, trust me... I have no problem getting dates online, but its pretty damn easy to scare a girl off, I dont think saying "We aren't in a relationship and I'm going to continue to see other women. IF we become exclusive I'll get rid of it. You can do the same" right off the bat is going to work to my advantage... online girls are very fickle and get scared off too easily...


    I dunno if anyones read Rooshv's article on Toronto, but its pretty accurate, 1 mistake and your out.

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    Default Re: Dating Multiple Online...?

    There is a LOT of great advice already.
    I'm just going to add MY OWN personal approach to this.
    For ME, it all depends on the dynamic of the "relationship" I'm looking for (or NOT looking for).

    However; I'm not interested in hooking up with tons of different girls. I'm not trying to "up my numbers" anymore.

    I used online dating sites in conjunction with real life game & combined ALL my techniques in all those areas... But my goal was to find ONE girl who I REALLY liked & wanted to pursue as someone who could be "the one".

    I still browsed & gamed other girls, even after talking to & meeting girls in real life... until I saw something unique about one of them....

    THEN, I made her my girl! And I deleted my profiles.


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    Default Re: Dating Multiple Online...?

    Yep totally, thats basically the route im going, but the girls dont stick around long enough for me to get to know them, ie decide on weather its worth pursuing...

    I mean sure my game could probably be tighter, but the sticking point is getting them to stick around even though they know im still browsing online...

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    Default Re: Dating Multiple Online...?

    You have to establish that frame up front & look for girls who AREN'T looking for something exclusive.

    Unfortunately for your situation, MOST girls on dating sites ARE looking for something more exclusive. (Unless you're on one of the sex / swingers sites.)


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