I have a question. You see, I have my group of friends, and none of them know about this whole PU-community. Interesting thing is, that they've had more experience or "luck" with girls than I had.
So I've been talking to a good friend of mine, who's good with girls, knows very well how to banter with them and tease them (all that attraction stuff) and when I'm in some sort of dilemma I can ask him about that.
So we've talked about how I am trying to meet new girls.
He said that I shouldn't be doing those cold approaches because it makes me look weird.
You see, the problem is, that I've been approaching for quite some time now and at the beginning I wasn't very good at all. And because I live in a semi-big town there are two destinations where we go out on weekends and both of them I've crashed and burned to some degree.
So he said that people have been noticing that I'm approaching girls and I get blow out, and because this is smaller town people know each other and they talk.
So because I'm doing this, I may be assumed as a guy who's approaching girls and says weird stuff...
He gives me points for having balls to approach them but that all in all I shouldn't be doing this.
Then I said to him that it's the only way I know how to have a chance to meet girls or meet a future girlfriend.
Meeting through social circle is not really an option, because all the ones I find cute aren't interested (otherwise I'd noticed that already).
So what should I do?
I do appreciate his opinion about that, and I know I've been sometimes saying stuff that perhaps shouldn't been told, but now I'm trying things in a different way. Also I must consider the fact that because of the area I'm living in that the groups of people haven't changed since I've started, girls who I've already tried to pick-up are just older now and rarely new are coming to this part.
Do you understand what I'm trying to say?