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    99Problems is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default She loved my opener but then no response

    Girl is studying software engineering at University and is a nerdy/geek type.

    My opener:

    Hey there! You know for a complete nerd you actually seem quite cool. Have to say though that coding isn't my cuppa tea - I'm more of a web design & photography type of guy.

    But who knows, maybe one day we will combine our computing skills and take over the world together
    Her response:

    Hey! Well aren't you a charmer haha I'm impressed you're into we design and photography, I love both to, they way more interesting than coding so I'd agree with you! I'm terrible at both though, maybe you could teach me a thing or two? Haha
    My reply:

    Being a charmer is what I do best Anything is more interesting than coding to be fair haha Have you attempted much web design/photography? Been at both for years - it's pretty much my job now. If you're a good girl I could maybe give you a few pointers sometime
    Been over a day and no response to that yet... kind of confused given how upbeat her first message was to me. Any suggestions on how to move this forward?

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    Default Re: She loved my opener but then no response

    Your opener was top notch but when you said "Anything is more interesting than coding to be fair haha", you instantly DLVd yourself. How? By making fun of her passion/career/whatever.

    I'm a mariner and I can joke about how my engineer is a drunken oaf who sits in the engine room all day "working". But if someone else were to say that to him, he'd probably knock them out. Point is: When you're messaging a girl, don't disqualify them or what they say. Disqualify yourself. If you were to disqualify your own interests, two things could happen: 1. She could re-qualify them which shows to you that she's interested. Or, 2. She could disqualify them, and then you could proceed to neg her in whatever way you choose.

    Secondly, when you said "Been at both for years - it's pretty much my job now. If you're a good girl I could maybe give you a few pointers sometime", it basically said "You don't owe me anything, but, you should be accepting of whatever I have to say and hopefully we can on a date". Sorry if that sounds a bit harsh, but that's what I took out of it.

    Always think through your messages. Not so much as to over analyze them, but enough to actually understand what it is that you're saying and whether or not you'd like to read that coming from someone else.

    -Noah
    "You know what my dream for this summer is? To have all the girls that you and I have farked this summer out on the SS Vagina."
    "That is the dream. It'll be one big mess of bad decisions and failed relationships."
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    99Problems is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: She loved my opener but then no response

    Thanks for the response, that makes a lot of sense now. Do you have a suggestion on how to move the conversation forward then?

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    Default Re: She loved my opener but then no response

    this interaction didn't pan out.if you see her talk then.or maybe send something.not really sure.

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    99Problems is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: She loved my opener but then no response

    Oh.. it was an online opener via Tinder... not in person.


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