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Thread: Should I even bother trying to get this girl out anymore?

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    Default Should I even bother trying to get this girl out anymore?

    Started chatting with this very cute 26 yo asian chick off okcupid. Saw she viewed my profile, shot her a message. Our online conversation ends with me suggesting we meet up for drinks, her response "sounds good hit me up sometime(her number)"

    Here's where our phone text conversation starts:
    (march 28th)
    Me: Hey Lisa, its blindbat
    Her: Lol well hello blindbat!
    Me: What sort of trouble are you getting into tonight?
    Her: Lol not too much, I'm actually in Vegas this wknd with the girls.

    (march 31st)
    Me: How was the Vegas trip... Any Stripper shows? Kink parties? Midget throwing contests? ;-)
    Her: Lol duhh.. Would it have been Vegas without those things?
    Me: Lol... I was just there in Jan, fun times.
    Her: Yeah we actually had a pretty chill time all things considered. Was a good time tho. I'd missed my girls!
    Me: That's cool. When are you free this week to grab some drinks and exchange a couple of Vegas stories?
    Her: Likely sometime this weekend, I've got a lot to catch up on though work and school wise so it'd be best for me if we can play it by ear.
    Me: Ok sounds good

    (april 5th - today)
    Me: Hey gangsta, how's your Saturday?
    Her:Hey! Its going well, how's yours?
    Me:Going awesome... Big day for college basketball. You like sports?
    Her:Love sports! I want Wisconsin to win.
    Me: Same here. I'm going to watch the game at Goose Island. How about meeting me there?
    Her: Dang I wish I could but I've made plans to hang with my dad tonight.. :-/


    Really? You made plans to hang with your dad on saturday night? I find that hard to believe. Was that her way of telling me to fuk off?

    Should I even bother responding? Keep inviting her out?

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    Default Re: Should I even bother trying to get this girl out anymore?

    Why not ?Maybe her parents are divorced...

    But yeah,always game other girls.You invited her twice and she couldn't make it,now it's her turn to invest.

    Don't bother with her unless she re-initiates contact and invites you someplace,but if she does,you pick a day you want to meet up(don't accept her day,don't be too available).

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    Default Re: Should I even bother trying to get this girl out anymore?

    Thanks for the reply and I've always got other girls in my rotation, in fact I'm on my way to bang one before I watch the Wisconsin game!

    I see what your saying but I doubt she'd initiate contact/invite me out. I might send her something after the game about Wisconsin since she said she is rooting for them.

    It's probably worth mentioning in our online messaging she told me she has not met anyone off of Okc yet. Does this mean she might need more rapport before going on a date? This girl is a HB 9

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    Default Re: Should I even bother trying to get this girl out anymore?

    I found the hardest part of talking to a girl online is getting them to invest in taking the time to see you. Its hard since they havent actually met you yet. You can probably just ignore her and move on

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    Default Re: Should I even bother trying to get this girl out anymore?

    Based on my personal experience, keep trying. The key is playful persistence and once in a while just casually hit her up. Keep expectations low and never overplan for D1.

    Like the others say, you also want to keep other girls in your rotation as well.

    Bobby Rio had once told me that in the past, sometimes it took him 6 months before he got a girl out. He just threw it out there and it just happened that one nite she was doing nothing. You never know what is going on in a girl's life and planning for a D1 has a lot to do with timing. It doesn't mean she likes you any less.

    I wrote a post regarding a long game. After a bunch of misses and rescheduling, I eventually did close D1 and things been gravy since. Had I just given up, I wouldn't be where I am at right now with a popular salsa dancer in my city.

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    Default Re: Should I even bother trying to get this girl out anymore?

    I can't remember who said it to give them proper credit but online game was compared to planting a garden and having to care and nurture it. You cant always expect immediate results, but when you keep at it the results will come.


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