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Thread: Girl takes 45-Hour between texts

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    Default Girl takes 45-Hour between texts

    So yeah, she's replied literally only two times since 11. I met her out at a mall, got her number with a Direct approach.

    I sent her a text going 'Is this Sarah?', she goes 'Yes lol' like 3 minutes later. So I try using a joke going 'This is Bob from [blahblah delivery service], where should we deliver your package?" than I send a follow up going "Haha just joking, it's GetBent, Are you in school, I dont want to busy you?"

    I got nervous, but then like 40 minutes later she goes hahaha, says Hi, than says something like how it's fine because 'you're not really interrupting anything'. So, I'm a little frustrated at it taking so long to reply but I don't say anything about it but I wait about an hour and a half and just give a simple 'Ok' and ask where she's going and what she's taking. It's been like an hour since then now..

    It's really just pissing me off at this point, I'm unemployed right now, and it's very very frustrating when you're sitting at home doing nothing and tempted to check your phone every 20 minutes. Maybe she'll start being chatty kathy after school? I'm a little confused about the texting in school thing, if she's not afraid to use her phone during her classes why not reply?

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    Default Re: Girl takes 45-Hour between texts

    I really feel like trying to call her out on this BS and being like "I guess you're not very good at texting huh?"

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    Default Re: Girl takes 45-Hour between texts

    It's your initial texts that may have failed to capture her emotionally and give her the want to continue texting you. IMO it would have been better to start off your texts with a more "engaging" and "exciting" vibe. You said you approached her directly and got her number so clearly she has attraction for you at some level.

    Rather than texting her something generic (like, "Is this Sarah"), you should have went with something a little more playful. Maybe like, "Hey! It's GetBent, that totally boring and unattractive guy you just met...save my number asap casue it's the most important one you're gonna get "

    By using something like this as a first text, you start the conversation off in a fun, playful way that keeps her engaged. It also has tons of hook points for you or her to go off of.

    From there, just use texting as a means to meet up in person.

    As for now, wait until she responds and try and direct the conversation. If she doesn't reply, freeze her out for the day and then you can try and start things off on a better foot later.

    Good luck, bro

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    Default Re: Girl takes 45-Hour between texts

    SORRY Dude , but those texts were pretty lame and boring .... T Mal just put up a list of some of his texts in the How To Text a Girl Section, go check them out and use them .... They are GOLD ..... and PLEASE dont call her out on not texting back, we have all flirted with the idea but it's so AFC .... DON'T DO IT .... wait a few days and re-engage with something new, fun, and flirty

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    Default Re: Girl takes 45-Hour between texts

    Correct me if I'm wrong but girls don't just say hahaha and lol and add emoticons to people they don't have a connection with, so why this no reply BS?

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    Default Re: Girl takes 45-Hour between texts

    I wanna know more about her, that's why I'm asking about her school, how would zipping a bunch of one liners help me do that?

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    Default Re: Girl takes 45-Hour between texts

    Your head is in the wrong place bruh. You can't draw conclusions on a girl you've only exchanged 2 messages with. "Women" are a broad topic, and can't be categorized so simply. Some women text really boring initially, and as the conversation progresses you start seeing the "hahaha's and the lol's" emerge at a more rapid pace. Other women throw "hahaha's and emoticon's" after every line. Get your mind out of that dark space it's lurking in and look at the bright side of things. You approached a girl and got her number. Congrats! Your text game is shitty, so go look around these forums and pick up a thing or two before you continue down that AFC path you're so eagerly willing to traverse. After you learn some things, you'll understand why sending that last text would have been disastrous.

    Start learning how to text here:

    http://www.puaforums.com/how-text-gi...nal-bible.html

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    Default Re: Girl takes 45-Hour between texts

    Okay so I froze her out for 24 hours till today and sent her a T-Mal type 'Magic text' about an hour ago, no reply yet..

    And I didn't JUST meet her at the Mall, she's a Hired Gun at a food court, but when I got her number she smiled and eagerly gave it out still


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