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    Richghostt is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Where did I go wrong?

    So I was supposed to hang out with a girl i met online on Friday (second time seeing each other), and we were texting a little bit during the day but about a hour or so before she was supposed to come over she just stopped texting me. The first "date" went pretty well and there were multiple k-closes, but I just don't understand why she just dropped off an hour before we were supposed to get together and hasn't messaged me since. Any thoughts on how to get her re-invested? Any sample texts would be good too.

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    Default Re: Where did I go wrong?

    She flaked.

    There's 2 options.

    1.) act like you don't care, & text her again in a few days & try again. Or if you see her in person, ask her what happened, & then try to setup another meet up In a fun, non/needy fashion. Just act like you didn't even notice, & build more attraction.

    2.) if you barely know her, & you won't see her in class or at work or something, go balls to the wall & call her out on it immediately. Don't put up with this shit, because if she flakes out on you after kissing her a few times then she's only semi-interested man. Kissing is anything to a girl really. It's barely an investment on her part, & if you're only an average kisse for example, that's even worse.
    Since you met her online & have practically no feelings or attachment to her, this would of been perfect.


    " Listen (her name). We had plans to (whatever you planned on doing) & you're flaking out on me. It's fucking disrespectful, rude, & un-attractive & i WON'T put up with it. If you can't make it, or something comes up, you better damn well text me or let me know at least a day in advance so I can make new plans.
    I'll be waiting for my apology. Have a nice day."

    She will either 1.) bitch you out back. If she does, you go no contact. Nothing. I promise you she'll keep texting/messaging you.
    You stay no contact. I've had girls bitch me out, then apologize 2 days later asking to make it up to me because they were being a bitch.
    If she doesn't, well, she's a bitch. I saved you a lot of time.

    2.) apologize & say she's so sorry and try to make it up to you.

    3.) not respond. If she doesn't respond. No harm no foul. Her loss.

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    Default Re: Where did I go wrong?

    So I messaged her your sample text

    Me (12:45): Listen (her name). We had plans to (whatever you planned on doing) & you're flaking out on me. It's farking disrespectful, rude, & un-attractive & i WON'T put up with it. If you can't make it, or something comes up, you better damn well text me or let me know at least a day in advance so I can make new plans.
    I'll be waiting for my apology. Have a nice day"

    To which she answered
    Her (12:54): You're right. I am sorry
    Her (3:34): don't know how yet but i'll make t up to you later

    Where should I go with this?


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