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  1. #1
    DatingRuleBook Guest

    Default Guide #2 : How To Make Men & Women Do What You Want (reciprocation rule)

    So, now we're on to using the law of reciprocation to get men & women to do what you want. Research has shown that the law of reciprocation, basically the need to return a favour, is overwhelmingly strong and effective in getting people to do what you want. This can be in return to a favour that you have done for the person , a gift you gave to that person or a request that they have turned down from you. Below is a further explanation to clarify things.

    When asked a favour, more often than not i usually happily comply. But this is usually with the idea that i would need something back from the person in mind. This is not my sole reason for helping people with favours, mind you, but it grants me a huge advantage when i need someone to help me get something or do me a favour (sometimes even greater in value) than what i previously helped them to do.

    Gifts are not all good.

    Gifts wise, it's scientifically proven that usually we do not expect any returns from giving someone a gift, however, it can be used to a huge advantage as long as the gift is one way (not a gift exchange for example), the receiving party would feel "obliged" to return the "favour", and this can be used greatly to your advantage.
    Below are a few great examples of how this can work out for you trying to get women to do what you want.



    Here you go honey, sex, woops i meant flowers.

    Example 1 : probably the most cliche technique, when a husband brings home a banquet of flowers to give to the wife, and sad as it may sound, this is not entirely out of love. This is usually with something in mind, like a forgiving act because he has done something wrong or perhaps even a sexual act because his raging male sexual hormones are taking over, you get what i mean. Either way, this method of giving his wife flowers first would engage the reciprocation rule and give him the huge advantage in whatever he may want as his wife would feel obliged to return a favour, or a job, to him. :P

    You are now promoted, to my girlfriend.

    Example 2 : the most basic and frequently seen form of men using the reciprocation rule is when they offer women a certain "favour", be it something simple like helping them buy their coffee in the morning to something more complex like giving them a raise or upgrading their position in their business, they all fall under the reciprocation rule. After offering these "favours", men would usually request somthing in return, which once again ranges from a simple dinner date to a more.. intense sexual favour, and because the woman would feel obliged to returning the favour he has done for her, she would comply with his requests.


    Oh well.. what about just coffee?

    Example 3 : the law of reciprocation can also work this way : people would feel obliged to returning a "favour" if they didn't fulfil your first request as they would feel guilty. This can be seen in scenarios where a man asks a woman out to have lunch or dinner with him, when the woman refuses his request, he goes on to say, "How about just coffee then?" and this more often than not always works out for him as the woman has felt guilty enough turning down the man's first request, thus, being more inclined to accepting his second request. Note : notice how this method combines the reciprocation rule with the contrast rule (asking for a small favor right after a big favor).

    All these examples illustrate really well how men can use the reciprocation rule to get women to do what they want in a variety of ways, through giving them a gift first, to the constant fulfiling of favours and requesting something in return at a later point, to making a succession of requests with the next being smaller than the first (contrast rule).

    Be imaginative!

    Be imaginative and you can come up with a variety of ways that you can use the reciprocation rule to get women to do what you want. Also, it would be good and helpful to all current and future readers if you could share ways that you have used or are thinking of using the reciprocation rule by sharing it through the comments on this post below. And here's a thanks on behalf of all the future readers! All the best in your persuasion (note: not manipulation) endeavours people!

    Yours sincerely,
    Desmond Leong
    Last edited by DatingRuleBook; 01-11-2010 at 08:08 AM.

  2. #2
    bloodDiamond Guest

    Thumbs up Re: Guide #2 : How To Make Men & Women Do What You Want (reciprocation rule)

    Great List!!

    I would like to add something though. Giving gifts can also be a way of "undoing" or making up on the things that you messed up. I guess you can always benefit in reciprocation; you help out other people who need you to dome some favors, and in the future, you would hope they will do the same to you.

  3. #3
    Ridikulus Guest

    Default Re: Guide #2 : How To Make Men & Women Do What You Want (reciprocation rule)

    Plus, I know guys who make it a habit to give little and big things to their girl so that the girls won't know it when a guy was cheating or something. See, the average guy gets to giving gifts and doing something nice when they do something bad, and that sets off the girl's radar. So if it was habit for them in the first place, they think the girl would be none the wiser.

  4. #4
    bloodDiamond Guest

    Default Re: Guide #2 : How To Make Men & Women Do What You Want (reciprocation rule)

    Undoing is a natural defense mechanism of being a human, whether a woman or a man. It may come as giving of gifts, doing a favor for somebody, taking her out in a nice park. All of those can be a manifestation of undoing.

  5. #5
    DatingRuleBook Guest

    Default Re: Guide #2 : How To Make Men & Women Do What You Want (reciprocation rule)

    yup very true, the sudden giving of gifts just sets out the alarm big time for any girl. That's why the reciprocation rule is so good, it not only does well in cover ups, but it does really well in getting what you want too, and more importantly, getting you dates and getting your way with dates, no?

  6. #6
    DatingRuleBook Guest

    Default Re: Guide #2 : How To Make Men & Women Do What You Want (reciprocation rule)

    any other feedback guys? (:

  7. #7
    DatingRuleBook Guest

    Default Re: Guide #2 : How To Make Men & Women Do What You Want (reciprocation rule)

    Actually it is true, giving a gift would throw the women off suspicion (:
    But more importantly, it helps you get your way with her, no? (:


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