In the next days I have several dates with students. They have no real income, I on the other hand have a well paying job. I feel like I'm not a gentleman if I'm proposing to split the bill. I've been a student too, and I know that the budget isn't always as big as you'd have hoped for.
1) What are the consequences of paying on a first date?
2) What are the consequences of paying on a second date?
3) Can I make deals? for example: "Don't worry, I'll pay this bill. But you better buy me a drink back when you get that dream job of yours. ;-)"
4) Any guides/videos regarding this topic?
Thanks in advance!