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Thread: Am I moving on? Bad texting?

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    Default Am I moving on? Bad texting?

    I know I messed up on the texting. Anyway to salvage this?

    Me: What are you up to tonight?

    Her: Watching FGump and doing my taxes...I procrastinated.

    Me: You should procrastinate some more and come out downtown. I'm doing mine tomorrow.

    Her: I don't go out very much...especially not during the week. Have fun though!

    Me:You'll be missing out on a terrible karoke performance, but you'll live. Are you free this weekend?

    Her: I'll be home for Easter.

    Me: Good luck with the Easter egg hunt. Lets grab a drink next weekend when you get back.

    She never responded after that..What am I doing now?

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    Default Re: Am I moving on? Bad texting?

    How well do you know this girl?
    How much attraction have you built?

    It seems as though you're pressing too hard for a meet up before you have her hooked.

    You can't just dangle the "bait" & let her nibble & try to reel her in... you have to compel her to BITE first... THEN hook her.



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    Default Re: Am I moving on? Bad texting?

    What's the history between you two?

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    Default Re: Am I moving on? Bad texting?

    You are pressing way to hard for a meet up when you should be working on builing attraction ...... and PLEASE don't ever use "What are you up to tonight?" again

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    Default Re: Am I moving on? Bad texting?

    Quote Originally Posted by welp44 View Post
    I know I messed up on the texting. Anyway to salvage this?

    Me: What are you up to tonight?

    Her: Watching FGump and doing my taxes...I procrastinated.

    Me: You should procrastinate some more and come out downtown. I'm doing mine tomorrow.

    Her: I don't go out very much...especially not during the week. Have fun though!
    I really don't think you messed up as much as you think if you have hung out with her before. The BIG red flag is her response to your suggestion to come down town. The "Have fun though!" is a clear signal that she was using that as a way to end the conversation. I wouldn't have responded after that. I think that you messed up by responding after she said that, or you should have just said, "Thanks, Good luck with your taxes!" So she knows to you it's not really a big deal whether or not she comes out with you or not but you invited her.

    -Axl Hunter

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    Default Re: Am I moving on? Bad texting?

    Staying within the theme here...
    when she mentioned doing taxes,
    You COULD HAVE said something like: "Sa-Weeet! you can do mine too! How good are you at cooking the books for maximum refund effect?"

    Or

    "Taxes... Ohhh yeah. That just plain sucks! We should get together right after and have an "anti tax-suck" party! Are you in, or are you gonna puss out? "

    or

    "Ohhhh, look at YOU, miss C.P.A. How much are you gonna sucker the IRS into giving you back this year? :P"

    Anything to spark some laughter & fun would be beneficial.
    Learn to use EVERY situation & circumstance in your favor.


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    Default Re: Am I moving on? Bad texting?

    Ohhhh, look at YOU, miss C.P.A. How much are you gonna sucker the IRS into giving you back this year?

    THIS IS GOLD ...... HAHAHAHAHAAAA !!!!


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