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    DatingRuleBook Guest

    Default Re: Guide : How To Be Charismatic

    Quote Originally Posted by culturedpearls View Post
    Even quiet guys who don't talk much can get into a girl's heart... or pants. It's not how much you say that counts. And maybe, your better bet is to get the girl qualifying for you so she's investing in you instead. I mean, sure, go improve on your sticking points, but also, you'd do better to use your strengths rather than your weaknesses in reeling a girl in.
    Good point there, tell her your future prospects and make yourself seem really promising, that way it immediately increases her perceived status of you, thus liking you more

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    smoothcriminal Guest

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    Great post! It's very inspiring yet very reflective. One thing about 3) Do Not Adopt A Follower’s Mentality, I would like to add on this. "A good leader is a good follower". You cannot lead if you do not follow. But it doesn't mean that you just follow what's ahead of you. We have a brain that would help us think and understand whether it is worth following or not.

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    DatingRuleBook Guest

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    Quote Originally Posted by smoothcriminal View Post
    Great post! It's very inspiring yet very reflective. One thing about 3) Do Not Adopt A Follower’s Mentality, I would like to add on this. "A good leader is a good follower". You cannot lead if you do not follow. But it doesn't mean that you just follow what's ahead of you. We have a brain that would help us think and understand whether it is worth following or not.
    Haha thank you and you do have a good point there. Perhaps you need to strike the perfect balance between the two, be a leader and also to listen to your followers, yeah? (:

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    Oh yeah, i need to ask, do you all agree that charisma is essentially made up of confidence?

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    I have found that points #2, #4 and #5 are greatly boosted if you practice a sport. For me it's a combat sport (competitive muay thai). Don't know if sports like soccer or tennis would have the same effect. Your advice is pretty dead-on, especially the part about following. Props!

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    GREAT post with terrific advice!

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    Default Re: Guide : How To Be Charismatic

    Quote Originally Posted by DatingRuleBook View Post
    Haha thank you and you do have a good point there. Perhaps you need to strike the perfect balance between the two, be a leader and also to listen to your followers, yeah? (:
    I think that you're confusing two different things here. The skill to become a leader is a completely different skill than being a good leader. To become a leader you have to give everyone the impression that you're greater than they are and that they need to be leaded. Unfortunately this is what most of the leaders of our world continue to do when they have reached the position too

    To be a good leader you have to listen to your followers, acknowledge that your decisions might be wrong and turn your followers into leaders themselves.

    This is almost exactly the same as picking up a girl vs having a LTR are two very different things.


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