I've been with this girl for about seven months. We were dating seriously for the first couple months then broke up for a few weeks. Got back together and basically the only rule I established was that if we're going to sleep together,neither of us can sleep with anybody else for health concerns, etc.
We sleep at each others house 4 or 5 nights a week, talk every day, I even go to church with her and her kid. She tells me she loves me almost every day. So its all normal "couple" stuff.
The problem is, a couple of weeks ago I asked if she wanted to be my girlfriend, she says "umm maybe" I got pissed because I've put so much effort and time into this "relationship."
She says that I know she doesn't want to date right now, but I do. I'm 30 and she's 23 so I'm sure the age gap has something to do with it. How should I deal with this? Do I give her an ultimatum? Please help. Thanks in advance.