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    Default How far ahead to schedule the 'date' 'day 2' or whatever u call it

    I have a tendency to try to schedule a meet up at least 3 or 4 days in advance as . I think that may be a little too long. What u say? My usual plan is set a 'we do this this day around this time' and I call her earlier that day or right before but I don't think that's best.

    Most recently I have this 'transcript'

    Me:I'm hanging out with you this weekend, when do u work, or rather, when don't you

    Her:I close Friday & Saturday

    Me:Where u live (blah blah)

    Her: (her town)

    Me:K, easy enough, we'll go have a drink somewhere sunday I let u know

    Her:I think I'm going to (my town) sunday

    Me:Haha, I live in (my town), what u doing out here

    Her:Blah blah blah, hanging out with my girl at my buddy's house who just moved there to drink

    Me:Ok babe, talk your friends into coming downtown at some point I'll meet you there

    Her:We'll see!

    My town happens to be that type of place where if you come here you're likely to end up downtown at all the bars/clubs since they're walking distance. Conversation continued and was good banter but I changed the subject as I wasn't quite sure what that meant. The exclamation point threw me off really, otherwise I'd take it as negative. We continued for a while and I think at the end of the conversation I was better off than at ^this point as we had some fun. Anyway, what to do until then? Call, text, nothing??? I think it'll work out if I contact her at some point that day, maybe at 9 or 10 when it's 'time' to go out otherwise it looks questionable to me.

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    Ridikulus Guest

    Default Re: How far ahead to schedule the 'date' 'day 2' or whatever u call it

    I generally prefer that am alone with the girl on Day Two, but I guess this can work too. I also prefer it that we set the date a day at most in advance so that there's less time for anyone to change their minds and flake on me.

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    smoothcriminal Guest

    Default Re: How far ahead to schedule the 'date' 'day 2' or whatever u call it

    I don't prefer scheduling dates for 3 days or 4. For me, it's better to have it scheduled in 2 days time. Because if the date is not soon, there is a tendency for it to be canceled and decide some other things to do.

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    tadejsusta Guest

    Default Re: How far ahead to schedule the 'date' 'day 2' or whatever u call it

    I wouldn't want to plan a date more than two days in advance, so if I'd call a girl today, I'd schedule it for today, tomorrow or the day after tomorrow tops. The further it is, more likely it is that something could come up and she'd flake.

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    Default Re: How far ahead to schedule the 'date' 'day 2' or whatever u call it

    Much appreciated. I been doing 3 days or more and been F***ed far too often. Day after tomorrow will be my latest from now on otherwise I'll pass and wait till something can be set on shorter notice. so in the meantime, I've got 4 whole days between now & Sunday so should I contact her again? That's a long time, I think I probably should do SOMETHING, what say you? Maybe Saturday or Sunday during the day to keep myself in top of mind position?

    I need to know this for the future as currently this question keeps coming up and making day 2 happen is my weakest point right now. F***ing logistics and loss of momentum are killing me lately!

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    tadejsusta Guest

    Default Re: How far ahead to schedule the 'date' 'day 2' or whatever u call it

    Well you can text her for the next two days to see if she's replying to the texts, this way you can also see how much she puts an effort into texting. Or you can also call her, it doesn't matter really...

    And when the weekend comes you can give her a ring on Friday or Saturday. Start with a normal conv and then ask her to meet up with you again. Don't wait for the perfect moment cause she might get distracted and she could hang up, so don't wait for the end of conversation and before you want to say goodbye also asking her to meet you.

    Do it somewhere in between. And when you do, tell her the exact day and the exact time you want to meet her. Only then you can adjust to her schedule, because she could be busy at that particular hour. Do you understand what I mean?

    Well, at least I'd do it like that, perhaps someone else has different take on this...

    Now make us proud and tell us how it'll go
    Last edited by tadejsusta; 01-14-2010 at 01:20 PM.

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    Solomon Guest

    Default Re: How far ahead to schedule the 'date' 'day 2' or whatever u call it

    Girls are such fickle-minded creatures (and I mean that in a neutral way, because it's also good that they couldn't be bothered with you one minute and all over you the next) so normally, unless we're really dating or it has been established that love is in the picture, I make dates a day before or on the day itself. Plus, I find it cheers them up when I end up brightening their day, hehe.

    Well, do keep up the text game, if only to remind her everyday that you exist. But also do game other girls during the interim, lest anxiety builds up in you because you're all excited and whatever about the supposed weekend date.


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