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    Default Girl I'm seeing with other guy

    So I've been seeing this girl a few weeks, got close to sex but didnt happen. So im supposed to hang out with her tonight. But actually i recently saw her... With another guy... Holding hands. I say hi to her, she waves and just keeps walking with him. I was stunned. I stop and walk towards her calling her name and she wouldnt turn around. It seemed like she was trying to get away. I go up to her and say "where we meeting up later"? Only thing that came to my head. I was tempted to give her a kiss to see how the guy would react but i didnt. She said she has work and then would text me when shes ready. So then I turn to the guy and introduce myself, and before I could say more she says she has to go, grabs his hand, and starts walking

    I'm literally so mad. Whats worse is i called my pua friend to tell him about it and he was telling me she sleeps around and his friend used to bang her. I know who hes talkig about cuz she has mentioned this person in conversation before.

    I'm so tempted to tell her to fuck off or be like wtf was that, but i know I shouldnt. I dont know what i should do, this hasnt happened to me before. I dont think i can act like nothing happened

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    Default Re: Girl I'm seeing with other guy

    Move on.................. .................... ...........
    There are PLENTY of other hot girls.

    She's the type that you don't need PUA techniques to get her into bed. It's all about convenience with her.

    Don't EVER say stuff to other guys... THAT will scare ALL the girls away... not just the one you're after, but all her friends, & their friends, & so on down the line.... Word travels fast.

    You'll be labeled as the weird / psycho possessive guy.

    Truest me, let it go.


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    Default Re: Girl I'm seeing with other guy

    That my thoughts exactly, but I'm not exactly sure how to say it to her

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    Default Re: Girl I'm seeing with other guy

    Don't say anything at all.
    You don't "HAVE TO" explain yourself to everyone.

    Just keep "fishing" & progressing.

    If she really is that hot, and you're really hung up on getting together with her, then say NOTHING.
    ANYTHING you say can & will be used against you at a later date.
    Know what I mean?

    You're letting HER affect you... and she's not even your "girlfriend".


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    Default Re: Girl I'm seeing with other guy

    I know she isn't, so theres obviously nothing I can do. But at the same time I would think its still pretty dickish to see multiple guys after a certain point. Like we've come close to sex and been talking for like almost 4 weeks. If she wants to see multiple people, thats fine, i just dont want to be a part of it

    I'm not hung up on sex with her. So I wouldnt have a problem just ending it.

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    Default Re: Girl I'm seeing with other guy

    She's taking the exact same "PUA" approach that GUYS are seeking so desperately.

    So why are you bothered?

    THAT is the question you have to be able to ask, AND answer yourself.

    GUYS wanna be able to bang every chick they see, without repercussions... But that's not how it works... unless WOMEN are ok with complying to that.


    If you've been talking to her for FOUR weeks and haven't had sex; but some other random dude is totally willing to sling some D**K her way within the first 20 minutes.... guess who she's hooking up with?

    That's what separates MEN from boys.
    "How far are you willing to go?"

    Boys chicken out & get all freaked about sex.....

    MEN don't care about whether they have sex or not with a particular girl... because they know sex will come at any given moment; with any other given chick.

    If you spent a moth "courting" her but never "sealed the deal"... there are THOUSANDS of other guys who will "finish off your work".

    Don't be afraid to flirt & be playful.


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    Default Re: Girl I'm seeing with other guy

    Hey SCoop,

    Same sh1t happened to me a few times in the past. Back in high school, a girl that I was interested in and I asked out to a concert seemed interested and accepted my invite. Saw her at an SAT test location holding hands with another guy...Probably an ex or a new squeeze. She just looked at me and said "Hi"

    It's easy to get pissed, been there. Your ego got bruised but welcome to the jungle of the dating game. I agree 100% with what T-Mal said.

    One of the best acting coaches taught me this:

    "The opposite of love is not hate, it is indifference"

    It is true. When you hate someone you are still giving them attention and value, and there is still passion with hate. Your attention is your most valuable asset. However, when you stop caring altogether as if you don't acknowledge their existence, it has a more profound effect.

    Girls like her are considered as "playettes" and these are girls you weed out. I don't care how hot they are. They might have a nice cover, but their story sucks. If you want to be a dominant man, treat a hot girl no different than you would treat anyone else.

    So if you are upset because you felt dissed, become indifferent towards her and find a hotter chick with more substance.

    If you ever come face to face with her again, just ignore her like you would a homeless jibbering guy on the sidewalk and show no anger. She is invisible to you. That will drive her mad. There is nothing worst for a hot girl than a guy she considers as low value giving her no attention at all and not acknowledging her existence.

    Just remember, if you are serious about learning the arts of PUA, much has to deal with controlling your emotions and honing your innergame so you don't make rash AFC moves.

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    Default Re: Girl I'm seeing with other guy

    T-Mal, i think i should've made it clear that I have tried to have sex with her. I never chickened out. She held off, said she wanted to wait. Thats why I was so shocked to hear she sleeps around. If it were true this would have been much easier for me. Idk what the story is with the other guy, but i know you're right I shouldnt be letting it affect me. Plus i only see her like once or twice a week so its not often.

    First things first, I need to ground my self energy wise before I see her later. Cant let emotions get the better of me

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    Default Re: Girl I'm seeing with other guy

    PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE don't tell her to fark off or be like wtf was that .... it will make you look like a little bitch boy .... Just be Alpha, learn from this, and move on .... Total world female estimate as of July 2013 is 3,523,843,881 of those 1,276,978,371 are HB 8.5 or better so there is nothing to worry about

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    Default Re: Girl I'm seeing with other guy

    Girls who dismiss YOU but welcome other guys are BAD NEWS...

    Trust me... I've been through that myself on more than one occasion in my life.

    It sucks.. no doubt about it!
    But you have to remember... a girl who strings you along is either NOT suitable for you... or perfect for you; depending on the type of man you are.



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