If you've sarged online you've probably messaged or talked to a girl who is super hot. And to make matters more complicated, she actually responds positively to you. What happens next is something all of us have been guilty of: we think to ourselves, "Oh man, this girl might actually be into me, I better try extra hard to NOT blow it with her!" And then what happens? Sure enough, we blow it! But why?
Why do we act different around girls we perceive as more attractive than what we're used to getting The answer is simple. We start having thoughts like, “This girl is too hot for me, I better throw in a little something extra to successfully attract her." And that's exactly what we do. No dice soldier!
DON’T do anything different than you normally would. Guys make this mistake time and time again. They get a positive reply (online) or a reaction (in person) from an especially hot girl and they think (because she’s so hot) they have to try something new and better to attract her. In essence…they panic and end up coming off as try-hard.
Picture every girl the same…as someone you wouldn’t date unless she had a kickass personality. Her looks don’t impress you. In fact, they somewhat turn you off because you know there’s a greater chance she has a shallow personality BECAUSE of her looks. Why is this? Because she's been able to cruise through life by using her looks to get friends, boyfriends, material items, jobs, etc. Whereas the rest of society has to use its personality, charm, wit, work ethic, sense of humor, etc. I call these particular hot women External Validation Whores! And you know what I'm talking about when I say external validation whores. These are the women who feed off of getting attention from their external surroundings, and most of the attention comes from men.