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    Default Hit it off in person but HORRIBLE texter

    Long story short:

    -we hit it off great, lots of chemistry
    -we madeout the other night before she had to go
    -then we make plans to go out for today and she's down
    -today comes and i text her and no reply
    -she's really awful at texting people back, her friends complain about it as well

    How do i build attraction with a girl like this? It's great in person but over text is just awful.
    She does make an effort to hit me back and keeps rescheduling dates but it could take literally days for a reply.
    I want to get to the point where she stops flaking and starts chasing me more.

    I'm considering calling her tonight or tomorrow and just saying hey I liked hanging out with you and I want to hangout with you again etc if you're not interested just be straight up about it so I don't waste my time.

    It could come off as lame but I like to be to the point, what do you guys think, any other suggestions?

    Thanks for the help!

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    Default Re: Hit it off in person but HORRIBLE texter

    Some girls SUCK at texting & prefer "talking".
    Some girls are totally opposite & PREFER texting.

    There's no right or wrong type... it's just preference. But if YOU excel at texting & SUCK at "talking", then you're in for an awkward experience.

    Otherwise, just go with what works & ride it out to see what happens.

    Worst case scenario, you learn some new skills to incorporate into your style.



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    Default Re: Hit it off in person but HORRIBLE texter

    I'm fine with talking and texting but the problem is how do I make plans with a girl who is so bad at replying

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    Default Re: Hit it off in person but HORRIBLE texter

    Quote Originally Posted by PD123 View Post
    I'm fine with talking and texting but the problem is how do I make plans with a girl who is so bad at replying
    Skip texting & go for the actual phone call.
    Or skype?

    Either way, If a girl doesn't like to text, you gotta improvise... or move on.


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    Default Re: Hit it off in person but HORRIBLE texter

    Been there done that with girls who hate texting.

    You need to run all of your game to the max potential when you see them, and then set up texting only for logistics.

    If that doesn't work, you can try one last thing, and that is in my personal experience, tell them you honestly want to be best friends and get to know them. Then you when you text them, make sure they quickly lead into deep rapport stuff about them.

    example:

    So how was your mother's day? Did you spent it with your mom?
    Girl: Yeah, I took my mom for lunch.
    Kyle: That's so awesome. Mother's day isn't so special to me because my mom didn't really love me growing up. Long story. How about you? Tell me about your childhood.

    ----its sappy, gets girl curious about why, and it's deep comfort stuff when she opens up to you. Makes her feel deep comfort.--

    Once the girl is comfortable with you, she won't "hate texting" anymore.

    (That's just an example^, don't use it. Create your own deep rapport questions or ladders, and get her to open up and become comfortable with texting you. That works for me because it's calibrated perfectly with who I am, and is true.)

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    Default Re: Hit it off in person but HORRIBLE texter

    Thanks for the advice guys I appreciate it! One more question, how should I go about talking to her again.

    Like blowing me off and ignoring my text and our plans for today is really lame, she did post on her facebook that she was sick but still I figured she'd at least let me know what's up but oh well.

    I'll probably wait a few days and see if she contacts me but if not should I text her like nothing happened or just straight up call her on the phone or something else?


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