I had an interesting conversation with a woman yesterday that inspired me to write this post. If you see any red flags from a woman next her.
I've dated allot of women including some that were emotionally unstable. The worst thing you can do for yourself is date an emotionally unstable girl. Since I've dated a few of them myself I have become an expert at spotting these girls.
I don't care if you only want to screw her or how "cool" and hot she is. It's not worth it. It will drag you down regardless of your intentions.
I'll give a few examples of what a "red flag" is for these types of women.
I was texting this girl I've been talking too for a few months and I recently moved back into her area. I know she's really into me because she told me when she was drunk. I tried to set up a date with her for today because she was free. Here's the last part of the text exchange after I invited her out and told her we are going dutch.
Her: hahahaha you ass!
Me: There's two locations so go to the one on xxxx
Her: I may show up
Me: Like I said. Wear something cute.
Her: Why? Mondays I wear sweats, you're asking too much.
I see this as a shit test but I know she's committed to going by this response. I really don't care if she dresses in sweats but I decide not to address it and end the convo because I'm going to bed.
Me: I'm looking forward to seeing you Beth. You have a good night. :-)
Her: Dude you don't have to just cut off conversations like you have something better to do- I'm prolly not going tomorrow- maybe we can find a weekend to all go up to Joe's cabin or something
Me: Whoa! I'm going to bed THAT'S why I cut off the conversation. I'm going to cancel on tomorrow. Maybe I'll see you around.
Her: Wow. Hah alright. sorry
Did you see her reaction when I ended the conversation?! This is a BIG red flag. This girl just showed me that she is immature and emotionally unstable. This girl is a Barbie doll but she just got nexted with that text. I'm not going to hang out with her and I will be ignoring future texts from her. If I see her in person I will be friendly but that's it. She messed up.
There's another girl I was talking to a few years back that was very attractive. I hung out with her once and made out with her but she had to go shortly after. I got her to admit through text that she would dress up in a sexy 80's outfit and strip for me! She was super excited about it too! This girl had a boyfriend to boot!
The day she was going to come over and strip for me was a Friday. I told her I had to do some homework first and I would let her know when I was done so she could come over. She then told me she wasn't going to come over and seemed pissed. I said "ok" and got off the phone. I logged onto facebook an hour later and found an angry facebook message from her.
The message basically said: I can't believe your doing homework on a Friday night instead of hanging out with me. That is SO rude. blah blah blah.
I read this message in disbelief and responded with: My schoolwork is the most important thing in my life right now. I need to do well in school. I barely even know you and I TOLD you I would let you know when I was done. You lashing out at me for this is ridiculous and totally uncalled for.
She then apologized but it was too late. That message was a HUGE red flag. I don't need to deal with bullshit like that. If she's already pulling stuff like this now just think what she'll pull later. This is another girl that was immature and emotionally unstable. I never hung out with her again even after her repeated attempts to contact me and hang out. NEXT!
If you see anything similar to this move on! It's not worth it. I would rather be with a really cool 6 then an emotionally unstable 10.
All you guys are worried about the girl. Allot of you guys would have thought you did something wrong when this happened. You didn't! Stop worrying about her. You need to stand up for yourself and do what's best for you. What's best for you is nexting these types of women and finding a better one.
There's WAY too many awesome women around to waste your time with women like these. If a woman does something you don't like walk away from her! You're the shit and she's lucky to be spending time with you!