OK, last week a met one cute girl. Here is the whole story, I need somebody objective opinion about this situation.
Last week I was traveling to another city, to see my brother at college and to have a good time during weekend. This girl sat next to me cause she had nowhere to go, I offered her to sit beside me to be more precise. I must say I had probably the best and most confident chat with "unknown" girl so far in my life. It was just perfect edition of me. It turned out that she is finishing college, she is studying the similar major like I did so we have many things in common. I could see that she was impressed with me, after all I am older 3 years, I am working etc. We spoke during whole trip (3 hours long) on various topics, as the time passed by I liked her more and more, she has a beautiful face and pleasent personality. I flirted a little bit in the end, she was smiling, I asked her number "to stay in touch", in fact I got a little confused (I felt pressure cause I could feel the whole bus is listening) and I gave her my number and she called me immediatelly so I could have her number. She remembered details of our conversation and she even mentioned seeing me again. I also could see that her girl friend (or cousin) who was sitting in front of us liked me. When we arrived I shook hands we both girls and I think I finished in great style.
That was part one.
I was at my brothers place for 2 days (one weekend), I often visit him cause I liked that city, I was also living there for 5 years and studying. My town is boring, so I take every chance to escape to the city during weekend and meet some girls. She is also from small town, 25 miles away from my town but she is studying in that city (like I said)
Because I was short with time I texted her next day, I invited her out.
Here is how conversation went (something like this):
ME: Hi, how are you? I would like to see you, to grab I coffee with you while I am here
SHE (responded a couple of hours later): Hi, I am sorry for not responding asap. I have plans with my cousin whole day, I cant see you on saturday. When are you going back home?
ME: Tomorrow after noon I am going home. I think I could find time for you before noon, for coffee (I wrote something like this)
SHE (responded with even more delay): I am sorry, once again I am not replying to your message immediatelly, I am really busy today. I cant see you tomorrow . Maybe next time when you are here, call me
That is how ended our first texting.
Next day I went home, and day after that I sent her friend request on facebook, she accepted during that day. We didnt communicate via face (avoid comunication via social networks), I looked at her photos, thats when I realised how beautiful she is. But one thing dissappointed me. She had a lot of pictures with one guy, I am 90% sure that he is her boyfriend. They are hugging etc (not kissing) and those photos range from 4 years period. She and him doesnt have relationship status written, so I am not sure. It looks like they knew each other for a long time, he is typical redneck, short, gym type, awful clothes, and he is from her small town. He has hundreds of photos, disgusting selfies, a lot of likes, comments from many girls so you can see that he is very selfcentred and popular person.
It looks like highschool sweathearts type of romance.
Despite that I sent her sms after 2 or 3 day, i a middle of week.
ME: Hey whats up, how are you? Its raining here ( I know, stupid message)
SHE: Here also, I was doing ...... (nothing important written)
ME: Hey I will be once again in the city for weekend, we could see each other
SHE:But I am going home for weekend, I have some wedding
This is the moment when my alarm went off. O wanted to end the misery and to clear the situation. I felt I was played and rejected one more time. So I sent her a message.
ME: Oh thats a shame, we really dont have luck. Listen I dont wanna be boring. If you are not available or interested in seeinf feel free to tell me , that want change my opinion about you
SHE: I love people, to hang around, to talk... . But at the same time I am always on a move, now I have this wedding I have to attend but I guess there will be new opportunity in future, see ya
ME: You rejected me twice, you dont know to make XY meal (inside joke)... but I guess I will give you one more chance . I am in the city during weekends, I hope I see you soon, bye
SHE: Lol , ok. Bye
Listen, I know I made some mistakes, dont be harsh, neediness and being nice guy are my main problems, I know that but its not easy to change...
My plan is to not text her anymore (7 days). Next time when I am in the city I will just call her and ask her out.
But I am not sure if she is single, interested, does she realise I want to date her etc... Bolded part of message is confusing me, I dont need farking friend...