Hey guys! So about a week or so ago, I met this girl through OkCupid and started texting her back and forth non-stop. I've established a very playful vibe through texting: (role-playing, witty and funny scenarios, future projections, etc.)
Today, me and this girl met up for the first time to grab bubble tea at this local place near our college campus. As I started getting to know her, I was surprised by the fact that she wasn't very receptive to me being physical with her especially when she flirts back and forth through text. Initially when I met her, I gave her a big hug. Later on the date, we sat in the grass and talked more (she was talking probably 80% of the time) but I didn't really sense her being attracted to me. I was normally going to hold her hand but I could sense that she'd be weird-ed out by it. Honestly, I'm not even sure if we were on a date in the 1st place. How do I tell?
And also should I be direct with her and ask her out again but label it as a "date" this time? Or does she already know it was a date but is just the prude/shy-type?