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    Default Need help with texting

    There's a girl who agreed to come over for pizza and a movie(I have a coupon for a free pizza). However, she said she might be busy doing something with her mom. We spoke on the phone once but mostly text. She never got back to me and we didn't get together like we were possibly going to. Please give me advice on what to say next. Here is the last few texts between us.


    Me- I found the coupon

    Her- Ok

    Me- So what works better for you tonight or tomorrow night? (Here tonight referred to Friday and tomorrow referred to Sat.)

    Her Idk I'll let u know

    Me- Ok probably tomorrow for me

    Her OK I'll let u know

    Me Ok

    Me Kind of late now. Let's shoot for tomorrow.

    Her I might have to go out with my mom Tom nite I'll let u know

    Me Ok




    So that was last night and after my "OK" I never heard back from her. I was thinking about saying something in a day or two like "Wow, you are naughty you never got back to me. LOL" but I'm not sure how that would go over with her. She's a little bit weird(kind of awkward) but she's a blonde with big boobs so there's a lot I'm willing to look past. Lol.


    Please keep in mind that I am very new to the texting thing especially with females.

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    Default Re: Need help with texting

    Text her something after 2, 3 days asking her when was the last time she had a pizza and it was brilliant too bad she's missed out on something free then ask her how did her weekend go.

    Gotta let the fact that she never got back to you go at this point imo and start from scratch.

    However my advice is don't get too engrossed in texting and certain times its better to leave the convo than replying with ok like you did - it displays power when you let her end the convo.

    Do keep this in mind : end game of text game is always to ask her out. Build some comfort first and ask her out during a high point.

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    Default Re: Need help with texting

    Well I never actually did get the pizza. Lol. I will just try to think of something else to say though. Not sure yet.

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    Default Re: Need help with texting

    You need to engage her with your texts. There is no reason for her to come and hang out in that exchange unless she's just after a free pizza. I read that interaction as you spending your Friday AND Saturday night sitting at home waiting for her just so you could eat and watch a movie. Also girls don't like making decisions so don't ask.. tell!!

    You: Movie starts at 7:28pm sharp tonight so don't be late. Pizza is being ordered at 6:30 so let me know your preference or you'll get stuck with the crust lol.

    You: Hey goober
    Movie and pizza are sorted for tonight!! All that's left is for you to get the drinks and get that cute little behind over here.. just try and keep your hands off me until at least halfway through the opening credits please lol

    There's two quick options off the top of my head. There are a few really good sticky threads on here that are worth reading, especially if you are new to texting.
    The one rule that I think is most important, and has been brought up a few times recently, is keep your texting consistent with who you are and how you interact in person. If you wouldn't say in person what I put in that second text option, then don't send it!

    I would reengage in a couple of days and start a new conversation. Don't mention anything about the other night (It didn't matter because you had other options anyway). Build some attraction and comfort and go for the meet up again.

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    Default Re: Need help with texting

    I'll have to think about it. I'm not even sure this girl is worth the trouble right now. I might just blow her off altogether. Thanks for the advice and comments though.

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    Default Re: Need help with texting

    might just be me.. but after reading your text exchange you didn't seem to listen to her. she said "i'll let you know" at least 3 times. although it might not be a problem my suggestion is to move the conversation forward even if it were a text. remind her why she should see you by putting your personality into your texts with jokes if you're funny, if you're sexualy maybe flirt some...


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