Just God knows how many times I got rejected on my first dates which I could pull from online dating sites. If you check this forum I have posted heaps of questions regarding my constant rejections! What changed the game for me recently was the blueprints that are given in this ebook (which is $2.99 only). It gives you a program as to what to say and do on the date so that you don't even have to think of it!
Of course it will take a few dates to get them down pat however so far every girl I have met up on a first date has said that the date was very different to their previous dates!
Here is the ebook on Amazon: