Ok gaming this 30 year old chick who's an expat in where I live.
A little bit about her: has a bf back home but not too happy about their relationship because the guy doesn't want to commit too much. Her friends and fam dont think he's a fit... etc. she personally rated a 5 out of 10 in terms of happiness.
Scenario: K-closed first date, had to reschedule second date this is the full text convo from today:
Me : Hey found you gorgeous! Hoping your day is slightly better than earlier in the week. Thank god it's Friday tomorrow x
(only started messaging her on whatsapp today)
Her: Hi. Yes have managed to complete a few more of the 'to do items' today! I'm thankful it's Friday tomorrow too How's your week been? X
Me: It's been alright haha moved into another department trying to pick things up as fast as I can. Haha are you still at work.. cuz let's not talk about work its wayyy past 5! x
Her: I'm sure you will get to grips with the new dept. I've finished work now - but difficult not to revert back to it considering the UK are now up and about. Ha ha. X
Me: Sounds like you actually have to work across 2 time zones! Agony! You should be sitting by the pool with that cocktail in one hand as far as I'm concerned haha. x
Have you got your saree ready for the weekend btw
Her: Yes agony - but just have to take it in your stride! Funnily enough I'm enjoying a nice glass of red wine and winding down for the eve. Yes saree all ready for the weekend. Will take 4 hrs to get ready!! X
Me: Haha nice. I was at a mates Indian wedding last year and I swear ive never seen so many people in saree at one time! My goodness does it really take that long!
Well deserved glass of red wine I'd say. Wouldn't mind having my glass of chardonnay and lighting up a few sticks hey.. where's my invite? x
Her: Ha ha......sorry out with colleagues with this eve. I'm trying not to smoke though - not good for the chest! x
Me: Haha I was only joking about the invite I'm seeing you Sunday anyway.. it's all good. have a good night! x
No replies as yet cuz she's not seen the message. Judging from the way this is going, am I on the verge of farking it up by being too flirty? I'm also struggling to gauge where her interest level is. Overall I felt that she wasn't as flirty as I was.
The whole reason why I even started to game her on whatsapp today was the realisation that she's a 30 year old woman and she's craving some attention, like her baby clock is ticking or something, not sure where that thought even came from!
What I might now do is see her reply. Give her the radio silence till Sunday then text her like
Morning! Hope you're not too hung over. Still keen for Thai? 7:30 at yours x