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Thread: N-closed during Daygame and LMR?!

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    Default N-closed during Daygame and LMR?!

    Hey I been in the community for about a year and it's great, it helped my learn about myself and connection with women way more then anything. I really like daygame so that is what I do to bring women into my life... Now for this awkward situation

    I went out daygaming and there was this local festival in the neighborhood, TONS of HB outside wearing shorts and everything girls normally wear on hot days. I approached one direct and complimented her physique. She was very open and receptive in our interaction and I gave a little flirt saying if she like it "rough or soft" she replied "always rough" which was a green light for me.

    Anyway, I N-closed with no plans cause she had to work the next day so I decided to establish a plan to meet on the phone. (Number did not flake =])

    In text she gave me LMR..... Idk why!?! The text convo wasn't as interesting as I thought it would be...yet VERY RANDOM, you'll see why

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    Default Re: N-closed during Daygame and LMR?!

    This is Day 2 of our texting. It doesn't make sense that's she's receptive in person but in text she a different person.

    Me: Hey guess what
    Her: What
    Me: I already miss how amazing you look 😛 (no response so I followed up)
    Me: you got a selfie?
    Her: No
    Me: Oh haha, why you single Sarah? You'll have horny guys talk to u
    Her: I don't like relationships
    Her: I'm not a people person
    Me: So then we would just share orgasms without the extra bullshit ;3 (I assumed that I already framed myself as a sexual person when I flirted with her in person)
    Her: No
    Me: I forgot your working right now. I'm probably distracting u haha
    Her: You're literally not a distraction at all
    Me: Oh you're just being sweet ;3
    Her: Wasn't my intention (This is where she starts going LMR on me)
    Me: So you're naturally sweet and sexy 😉 lol
    Her: I'm mean
    Me: Oh yeh? I'm a bad boy tho
    Her: I like girls (shit test? Idk)
    Me: Me to. We have something in common! Haha
    Her: Good keep it that way and leave me alone

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    Default Re: N-closed during Daygame and LMR?!

    too cocky and pushy. you didn't pull back. you also began judging her without any humor and you never gave her any emotional spikes in the texts... my opinion the only thing you did right was your intro... the follow through didn't come off as playful or inviting. i also think you should have waited to tell her to give you a pic after she was responding to you in a more positive manner...
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: N-closed during Daygame and LMR?!

    Maaan. You come off as too strong. You were like a sexual predator who wants to bang the hot chick and never call her again.

    Idk about your style but I NEVER compliment a girl's physical attributes directly. Whenever I compliment I do it inderectly or say something nice about her personality.

    (i.e. "Hey blue, bla bla bla bla bla" = not actually a compliment but referring to her blue eyes ; "I like the way you think")

    The talk was already too sexual, It might work in-person but in text it's a whole different story. In person she can see you, She can see the confidence, the eye contact, the body language, the smile but in text she's not sure if you're joking or not, I mean you could be texting her with your other hand on your d1ck, you know what I'm saying?

    No.1 rule : Never compliment a high value girl about her physical attributes it would only higher her value and lower yours. (Plus they receive that too much)

    Plus you asked for a selfie man. You called it a farking SELFIE haha just kidding. I just really don't like that word. If you came off as a sexual person she might think your just asking for a "selfie" to get off. Then bam! before you know it she's already in bitch mode.


    I would advise you to leave this girl alone. Just forget about her. But personally I don't like giving up on a girl because there's always a reason why she's being a bitch. It's not necessarily that she hates you, she could just be having a bad day or something. I mean She gave you her number and she expects you to contact her. Also if she's not interested she won't be replying to you.

    Her: I don't like relationships
    I'm not a people person

    (I would have pulled back in this situation)
    - Ahhh. So you're a dog person then? Maybe a cat person too? (Then you could've built comfort , get to know her and move on to the sexual stuff later)

    And one more thing, when you Number Close someone make sure to make some plans.

    - Let's have coffee tomorrow bla bla bla
    -I have work tomorrow bla bla bla
    -Let's have them now then bla bla bla or what time you come off tomorrow bla bla bla
    -sure (Bam!)
    or -no bla bla bla
    -Okay then I'll just call you when I'm availbale for that coffee bla bla bla

    You see the pattern? But don't actually say this shit, it's pretty boring. That's just an example to make a point. The reason for this is so that when you call or text her She'll know..You wouldn't have to have the casual talk. You could just be like. "Hey, Bryant park, at bla bla, bla bla tomorrow, Let's have that coffee bla bla bla"

    Anyways. Good luck man. May the force be with your game.

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    Default Re: N-closed during Daygame and LMR?!

    You were way too sexual. Way too strong. This hurts my eyes to see.
    Live & learn.

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    Default Re: N-closed during Daygame and LMR?!

    @Cap my style in game changed, i was indirect but changed, now I am direct so I do direct daygame (it feels right for me) and I guess that's why I was sexual very fast. I'll have to modify my text game and tone it down a bit but yeah that's my style. Thanks for the info though.

    Also day 3 of text was when it really got weird. Normally I would give up but she's a HB and she's writing back so she obviously wants something right?

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    Default Re: N-closed during Daygame and LMR?!

    Just remember these girls are people not Fack toys
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: N-closed during Daygame and LMR?!

    This is day 3 of texting and by far then weirdest. I thought she wouldn't text back after day 2 but this is what she opened with

    Her: Do you like anal
    Me: if I like giving?
    Her: taking (WTF!)
    Me: That's gross. You like that shit? Lol
    Her: I have a strap on. And lube. You have a booty (at this point I wasn't sure if she was joking or serious...)
    Me: That's some kinky stuff, you tried it on your women? (Since she said she's lesbian from before)
    Her: of course
    Me: We should see each other today at the same spot we met
    Her: No
    Me: Hmm okay
    Me: (I sent this message to her by accident it was for someone else) Internet is to low I can't hear you
    Her: Um..okay
    Me: Wrong text message haha.. (No response for 2 hours then she sent this)
    Her: Ay boo u got a selfie (this is a clear ioi as she is calling me her "boo"?)
    Me: That's mean, I asked first haha
    Her: Yeah but that was like yesterday, it doesn't count
    Me: Okay hun, where's my selfie lol
    Her: I didn't say I was gonna give you one
    Me: True, it might break my phone screen. Fea 😉 (this was my neg "fea means ugly in Spanish)
    Her: Sexiness too real

    Anyway, this text ended with her telling my "you're a fucking creep"... So I just gave up

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    Default Re: N-closed during Daygame and LMR?!

    Overall this chick is just very strange texter for someone attractive.
    Today after a like a week of us not texting she texted me saying "What's wrong? Can't handle the chocolate thunder?" Idk what that means but I'm assuming she's still interested?

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    Default Re: N-closed during Daygame and LMR?!

    to me it doesn't seem like she knew how to flirt. i don't have any texts for you to use but you need to meet her in person and give her a nuggie and turn it into a nookie so you can do it all for the cookie.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.


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