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    Default How to make her want to see me again?

    Hey guys.

    So after a long dry spot, I somehow had a threesome with two gorgoues girls, and my mojo is back. However, I'm still hopeless at text game and I'd like some advice.

    One of the girls said she wanted to see me again, as I was with her for a few hours after the other one left. I got her number and said I'd message her before I left.

    I left it a day (mostly because I was sleeping off a hangover), then my friend told me he got a message from her asking why I hadn't texted her. I assumed that meant she was keen to talk to me. I waited several hours after this so she wouldn't think I was only messaging her because she asked my friend.

    Then a short text conversation began, I asked her how she pulled up, if she had covered up that love bite I gave her that she was embarressed about, and she asked me if I had fun (with a winky face thrown in). I then said we should catch up on the weekend, because I'm busy during the week.

    Her reply was "I will see."

    I have no idea how to respond to that, as it seems like she has now lost interest. Its been a while since she sent it, I dunno if I should wait for her to message me again or to reply (has it been too long of a wait to reply though?). And if I should reply, what the hell do I say? I just want to organise a meet up again. I'm fine talking face to face, its just this stupid text game that seems to screw me over.

    Any pointers? Thanks guys.

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    Default Re: How to make her want to see me again?

    Hey mate can you post the text exchange!?
    Also have you read the texting guides? There are plenty of ideas with opening conversations gone cold.

    Texting really shouldn't be any different to how you interact in person, except for the obvious fact that you don't have body language or tonality. So if you're good face to face try and text the same way you would interact in person, you just need to be a little careful how your texts are worded.

    I believe texting is an important part of game now. Yes you should use it primarily for getting the meet up but you can't just arrange a meet up and then go no contact. Or even just push for a meet up without building some level of attraction.

    If you can post the conversation we can see where you need to improve and how to go about it better.

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    Default Re: How to make her want to see me again?

    Does no one read the texting bible thread before posting new threads? I hate sounding like i woke up on the wrong side of the bed but reading some of the bigger popular threads will help you catch up to speed on some different angles of how to address your problems. Its not perfect but its all about building a foundation. You might only be looking for answers that are specific to you but theres a lot you can do for yourself just by reading considering the fact that hundreds of guys have stated their problems in regards to getting a girl to invest in him without trying to sound needy.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: How to make her want to see me again?

    i started looking over your post again. i think you had somethings that worked in your favor as to whats happened so far. but theres little advice to give if you're being so general. we wont know where you've put your foot in your mouth or if it's a Sh!tTest. know what I mean? if you're not willing to share my advice right now is continue in the lazy manner of talking to her, but have a specific goal in mind about something you want her to do with you--maybe something you're already doing and that she should tag along. it's pretty basic--but for her saying "I will see" it's basically a logistical problem. with that said theres no easy way around it via text because she's not there infront of you. you can't distract her and you can't lead her through escalation if you're trying to get a kiss. all you can do is build comfort / rapport or flirt / break rapport--even then it should be simple to get emotional spikes so she can feel challenged enough to respond and invest in responding. but remember, the text game isn't really effective if you're trying to hold their attention. you need her to see you in person.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.


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