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    hinacay is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Chatting up introverts

    Does any of you veterans got any tips on hitting on introverts? i met one on OKC and she replies back alot in her conversations and seems to be going swimmingly but I'm scared to escalate as it might turn her off. (I'm not assuming she is an introvert, she told me she was along with descriptions of her personality which seem to agree)

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    Default Re: Chatting up introverts

    if you list the actual conversation we'd be able to help you more if it was via okc text...

    if not you're gonna need to be a little more detailed anyways..
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Chatting up introverts

    Never be afraid to escalate.
    Women are gonna be more attracted to confident men. And it's better to be a man & go a little too far, than to be timid & not go far enough.

    You can always apologize for pushing things & going a little overboard, but you can't apologize for being a chump.


    The key to getting shy/introverted girls (or people in general) to open up, is to lead the interactions with them. They're more of the "follower" type & prefer someone else to give them direction.

    So when you project a "leader" type personality, they'll be comfortable & things will flow naturally.


    Need one on one private coaching? PM me for details.

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    Default Re: Chatting up introverts

    Introverts=

    Comfort comfort comfort. I wouldn't even worry about flirting & trying to build attraction until they start to open up to you & are comfortable.

    Tmal is right about leadership. Don't ever expect them to lead anything or make choices for you. You lead them.


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