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Thread: Girl stopped texting after I asked what she was doing today

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    Default Girl stopped texting after I asked what she was doing today

    So I met this HB8 at Mcdonalds last night , I got her number and texted her an hour or so later. I would just like to know where I messed up.

    Me: This is a VIP # , don't lose it - Mac (got this from simple pickup)

    HB8: who is this

    Me: that cool guy you met at mcdonalds, you tried giving me stale fries.

    HB8: They werent stale ok lol they were just sitting there for like 5 mins and I tried being nice and giving them away!

    Me: On top of that, one of our burgers wasn't even wrapped lol. It's cool though, I gave that one to my friend.

    HB8: I didnt make the food lol im sorry haha

    Me: It's ok. I'll just make sure I don't buy any food while you're working. What you doing today?

    And that was it. No text back. I don't know if she understood that I was teasing her. Was I too cocky? I got all the IOIs in person and she didn't hesitate to give me her number so I don't know why she stopped texting. What should I say next?

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    Default Re: Girl stopped texting after I asked what she was doing today

    She's probably busy or didn't get the message. Don't worry she'll text back later or just text her again in a few days.
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: Girl stopped texting after I asked what she was doing today

    i second the above.. but try not to ask questions that sound like you're interviewing her about the weather... make your questions challenge her emotionally. you challenged her on the fries and you were pretty funny with it and she went along with it.

    don't push for the obvious yet since she barely remembers who you are. build comfort out of being weird and funny in that area so she knows to recognize you as a friendly person.

    i still recommend once in a while to stop into have a meal and if shes there cool, make a remark that says you're going to record yourself eating the fries or something to make sure they're not stale or something. then when you eat it, record it and send it via text. keep it funny, silly and short. i think if she responds well or at all to the video you're now memorable and have a pretty good chance on hanging out with her--but treat it like its not a big deal...
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Girl stopped texting after I asked what she was doing today

    Here's a little tip:
    Instead of asking her what she's doing, tell her what YOU'RE doing.

    "Hey little kitten, I'm just making a pizza here & for some reason you popped into my head. You like pepperoni, right? Hope you're having a splendid day!"

    Asking her questions too early kinda puts her on the spot. So rather than do that, just share a small tidbit about your own day/life with her.

    This is extremely effective when it comes to building comfort, because the girl will see you're willing to open up to her... & it can totally lower defenses.



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    Default Re: Girl stopped texting after I asked what she was doing today

    I like that.. Reverse psychology
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Girl stopped texting after I asked what she was doing today

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    Here's a little tip:
    Instead of asking her what she's doing, tell her what YOU'RE doing.

    "Hey little kitten, I'm just making a pizza here & for some reason you popped into my head. You like pepperoni, right? Hope you're having a splendid day!"

    Asking her questions too early kinda puts her on the spot. So rather than do that, just share a small tidbit about your own day/life with her.

    This is extremely effective when it comes to building comfort, because the girl will see you're willing to open up to her... & it can totally lower defenses.

    Yea, I ended up texting her later, after still no response from her;

    "I'm going to sunset bay in a few hours (beach/bar) and I need a cute girl to be my Twerk partner. You down?"

    3 and a half hours later she texted back that she had just woke up, so probably not. I think I have to try a little harder with this one so we'll see how it goes lol. If I have to, I'll go back to Mcdonalds and flirt with her in person!!

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    Default Re: Girl stopped texting after I asked what she was doing today

    Timing is everything. Take your time, don't rush things. Girls like to be stimulated mentally, flirt, role play, fu*k her in her mind first before you fclose her.
    Don't be so quick at pulling the trigger as is you show her that you can control your emotions and stimulate her mind at the same time, you will show dominance over her.

    I liked the very few first texts you sent to create the connection, but personally I usually pull back after that and wait, and wait, and wait... To create anticipation, then use one of Tmal fun text to recreat another connection days later, flirt, tease, challenge... Wash rinse repeat until she can't take it anymore, then I bait, if she bites I set a meet up...

    Plus you know where she works at, so she ain't going anywhere... Just be patient and don't be quick at pulling the trigger buddy.
    Nikee --Just did it--

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    Default Re: Girl stopped texting after I asked what she was doing today

    Nike, could you elaborate your "baits", some examples?
    I think I use them already, but I want to be sure


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