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Thread: Players, when do you text the girl after date #1?

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    Default Players, when do you text the girl after date #1?

    I just had a pretty good first date with an attractive girl and would definitely love to see her. She texted me after the date saying she had a good time. I sent a brief response, and she texted me back afterward. I can't fully gauge her interest level, but I want to make sure she doesn't lose her interest just yet. I want to text her to set up date #2, but I don't know when I should do that. Corey Wayne tells the readers to contact the girl a week later whereas most ppl say 2-3 days should be fine. Mr. Artists, what works for you?

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    Default Re: Players, when do you text the girl after date #1?

    First of all, NEVER call us "players".
    Although SOME of the guys who lurk here might be players, that's not what we're about on this forum.

    Before you go for date #2, keep flirting / bantering.

    I've NEVER waited for a couple days to text a girl after the first "date". I would text her as soon as I got home & send something fun, just to keep the line of communication active.

    Something like "Just saw a red 'Slug Bug' on the way home... made me think of you. Goodnight Rainbow-Brite. Text me when you wake up tomorrow."

    I pretty much always got a reply back within a minute. AND they would text me the next day. (building compliance)

    Keep the fun vibe going for a couple days, then tell her something like "I'm craving *******, you totally have to come with me this Friday! I need you there to make sure I don't eat the whole thing. Deal? "

    Don't push for the 2nd date too soon. Flirt for a couple days, THEN set it up.
    Flirting makes her look forward to getting together.



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    Default Re: Players, when do you text the girl after date #1?

    Ok. I'll call y'all artists then. Never thought of the word as an offensive term.

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    Default Re: Players, when do you text the girl after date #1?

    I've always liked after a good date;


    So bottom line is you kinda impressed me tonight...and I don't get impressed very often. Keep up the good work ; )

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    Default Re: Players, when do you text the girl after date #1?

    By the way, what's the word in asterisks? Haha

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    Default Re: Players, when do you text the girl after date #1?

    The asterisks **** means, fill in the blank with whatever you want.
    Cheesecake, pizza, sushi, tacos, margaritas....etc.


    Whatever you feel like using.


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    Default Re: Players, when do you text the girl after date #1?

    T-Mal has is spot on, and I just recently learned this one myself. Went on 3 dates last week with 3 different girls, all of which went about the same. Didn't text the first 2 until 2 or 3 days later; minimal compliance, short answers, no day 2s (farkin BS!). However, the 3rd one I text within an hour of leaving our date, set up the day 2 right then over text for tonight. Hit em up right away, preferably with something amusing that happened on your date.

    Ex: A lady walked by my date and I and asked if she could give us free breakfast. Turns out she had 2 free smoothie cards she was giving away.

    Me (1 hr. after date): I forgot we got the free smoothies from the take u out to breakfast lady haha. We'll have to get those this week, and check out the kids muesum

    Her: Oh yeah, we can't waste the free smoothies! And you know I really wanna go to the muesum

    Me: I know you do, its just casue you'll fit so well in there

    Her: Yeah maybe, but you know you would too.

    Me: I never said I wouldn't

    Her: Haha, well I'd be free Wed. or Thurs. this week for our free smoothies

    Me: Wed. will work, lets go then

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    Default Re: Players, when do you text the girl after date #1?

    I finished a good date yesterday with a k close. Didn't text after the date and Haven't texted yet this morning. I feel like I missed a good opportunity based on what tmal wrote. I can only move forward so what can I do? Message her asap?
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    Default Re: Players, when do you text the girl after date #1?

    Quote Originally Posted by konman View Post
    I finished a good date yesterday with a k close. Didn't text after the date and Haven't texted yet this morning. I feel like I missed a good opportunity based on what tmal wrote. I can only move forward so what can I do? Message her asap?
    Yup. Within 24 hours isn't so bad. It would be best next time to get at it right away but you still have time. Text her like no time has elapsed, you wanna keep that attraction steady


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