The girl I am with pushes and pulls. She pulls verbally. Ie. I miss you so much, etc.. while writing this she just sent me kissy smilies which I get randomly throughout the day. She pushes with time. We are both busy during the week but when we see each other say on a Wednesday it will be brief. There is more to it than that but I feel I need to flip it on her. From reading who is doing the pushing and pulling is controlling. So do I become distant ie. She ask to do something and I can't? I should also mention I am in a new town and know no one so I am partly afraid I maybe being needy.