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    Default How to date without a car

    I'm in the military and haven't been able to get a car since I left my old one back at home. I keep on meeting great girls but it's really expensive when you have to pay for the date and a cab there and back, any good strategies.

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    Default Re: How to date without a car

    Find a girl who has a car & let HER drive to you.... At least part of the time anyway.



    My girlfriend drove 2 hours to see me every other weekend. I drove to see her on the alternate ones. It worked out much better than one of us always making the trip.

    Now we live together, so we don't have the distance issue / expense to contend with anymore.

    But seriously, be up front with the girls you're talking to & let them know you have to watch your budget, so you can't just blow all your money like an over-excited kid.

    If you do it right, they'll probably offer to come to you, without you even mentioning it.



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    Default Re: How to date without a car

    If logistics are in the way then plan it out so you dont have to drive to get somewhere. Make it more comfortable and intimate with things in reach for the both of you. Hang out at her place, meet halfway at a park or something... Make it more about meeting up and actively doing things instead of going out for dinner. The more the dates seem less of a date the more you're hitting her subconcious about how you both are spending intimate time together like a couple already. Dont make the car an issue--just plan it out. Be creative and keep it adventerous that way she doesnt see it as a flaw that you have--instead its become a strength. Tell her things like "i dont have a car--i walk just about everywhere--it gives me more of the enviornment to take in--like the trees on your block--they remind me of wizard of oz...." ... Keep her on her toes
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.


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