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    Default Re: Woman wants to meet me on POF

    Still never heard back from this one but as the name of the site implies there are lots more where she came from.

    Anyway, I just wanted to say one more thing. Even though I'm not an expert(yet)I can tell you that one of the things that will make or break someone in online dating and in dating in general is their attitude. The guy who told me it's a jungle has it all wrong. He's coming from an AFC position where he feels frustrated and thinks of it as some sort of gamble. He needs to change his perspective(as well as probably his approach) if he wants to be truly successful with online dating. Instead of thinking of it as a jungle he could think of it as a playground where he is having fun trying to get to know women. Just like in any playground some people will want to play and some won't. When he calls it a jungle he is implying that some women are like lions or tigers and will eat you up alive. That is the wrong attitude. All we have to do is change our perspective and our results will change as well. We have to be willing to constantly change and tweak our approach and learn from our mistakes if we want results. As the saying by Tony Robbins goes "if you do what you've always done then you get what you've always gotten." Also, the definition of insanity(as quoted by Albert Einstein I believe)is "doing the same thing over and over again expecting different results."

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    Default Re: Woman wants to meet me on POF

    Quote Originally Posted by Mystik View Post
    I figured I had nothing to lose by sending her a message. I'm just going by past experiences. Women on there rarely ever get back to me.

    Anyway, you are right. I probably did blow it with her. However, if I do hear back from her I'll let you know. You live and you learn.

    Recently some guy(who as far as I know is not part of the PUA community)told me that he though POF(and possibly other dating sites)is a jungle. What do you suppose he meant by that. He said he has made friends on it though. From what I can tell it's not really the place to meet female friends although I suppose that's better than nothing. However, I don't think most guys go on there looking for friends.
    A 'lottery' might be a better description. Some people don't want to pay so they will send off random 'I wanna meet you' messages. Others may not actually take online dating seriously, others may have been on there so long they actually become complacent. Thats usually why I try and just test a girl to see if she is responsive first before powering away messages. It also depends on where you are, which dating site is popular and just luck of the draw of who is on and when. There are always girls breaking up and then putting up a profile so just when you think there's no one good on there some new faces arise. Good luck!

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    Default Re: Woman wants to meet me on POF

    I actually met a woman on POF. Well I didn't meet her in person yet but I've already moved onto the texting. We don't have any definite plans to meet yet but I'm working on it. Maybe this weekend.

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    Default Re: Woman wants to meet me on POF

    Ok, It looks like this latest one is now done also. LOL. All I said was something like I don't like texting. She told me she prefers texting to messaging on POF and told me to keep fishing. LOL. Oh well. I can either be honest and risk getting blown out or I can lie.


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