Still never heard back from this one but as the name of the site implies there are lots more where she came from.
Anyway, I just wanted to say one more thing. Even though I'm not an expert(yet)I can tell you that one of the things that will make or break someone in online dating and in dating in general is their attitude. The guy who told me it's a jungle has it all wrong. He's coming from an AFC position where he feels frustrated and thinks of it as some sort of gamble. He needs to change his perspective(as well as probably his approach) if he wants to be truly successful with online dating. Instead of thinking of it as a jungle he could think of it as a playground where he is having fun trying to get to know women. Just like in any playground some people will want to play and some won't. When he calls it a jungle he is implying that some women are like lions or tigers and will eat you up alive. That is the wrong attitude. All we have to do is change our perspective and our results will change as well. We have to be willing to constantly change and tweak our approach and learn from our mistakes if we want results. As the saying by Tony Robbins goes "if you do what you've always done then you get what you've always gotten." Also, the definition of insanity(as quoted by Albert Einstein I believe)is "doing the same thing over and over again expecting different results."