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Thread: Question about date 1

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    Question Question about date 1

    So I was finally able to get an HB8 to hang out with me after work. We went to the park and spent about 3 hours talking and walking around. I did Kino from the start and went in with the mentality that she liked me. We sat for awhile on a bench and I threw my arm around her. Later on while walking I grabbed her hand and we held hands the rest of the time. Talking with her was so effortless, but numerous times I got on topics I should have avoided. When we said goodbye, she gave me a hug and as I was going in for a kiss she gave me her cheek. About four hours later she texted me that she had fun. (I haven't responded yet.)

    I feel that the date went bad because I didn't kiss-close. Should I even bother to ask her on a second date, or should I move on?

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    Default Re: Question about date 1

    You kidding bro? Of course you go for the day 2. She may have given you her cheek but it's only because she liked you and didn't want to move too quick. Her text is a full blown green light for interest. For future reference, if anything comes along that indicates even a 5% interest in you, assume 100% interest. Respond to her. Grab a fun thread you had while hanging out with her, and run with that. Don't say "I had fun too, I hope we can do it again soon." Treat her like she is this awesome new friend you just made. After all, she is...

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    Default Re: Question about date 1

    Yeah like what? no k-close, new girl lol. Come on, you need more faith in yourself than that

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    Default Re: Question about date 1

    Never do your first kiss at the end of the date--too much pressure and its not in the moment. Kiss in the middle or begining of date to help capture the moments with her. When you guys are wrapped up and cuddling--you pretty much already have permission to put your head against hers--which means she's likely to respond well to a kiss. The kiss at the end makes everything much more awkward because you both are trying to make sure it ends well with the right message--when you should have been giving her the right message from the get go. Dont hold back for the end.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Question about date 3

    Great advice guys!

    Went on date number two and K-closed towards the middle. We had a long make out session at my place and it was heading to an F-close but we both slowed down. I personally didn't want to rush it since I really like this girl as gf material.

    However, now post-date two I am not sure what to do next. I feel like I should be texting her daily at least once, but I can't seem to get myself to do this. Its been three years since I last had a relationship and one year since I had a friend with benefit.

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    Default Re: Question about date 3

    Quote Originally Posted by Perez91 View Post
    Great advice guys!

    Went on date number two and K-closed towards the middle. We had a long make out session at my place and it was heading to an F-close but we both slowed down. I personally didn't want to rush it since I really like this girl as gf material.

    However, now post-date two I am not sure what to do next. I feel like I should be texting her daily at least once, but I can't seem to get myself to do this. Its been three years since I last had a relationship and one year since I had a friend with benefit.
    Just stay cool. Keep in contact with her. You don't have to write her a pulitzer prize narrative every time, just send the odd text about what you are up to, what she's been up to, jokes, pics etc. Remain confident and maintain the attitude she likes you. Don't think about your past. Just go with the flow and be yourself.

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    Default Re: Question about date 1

    Your date has been far better than 90% of other first dates.The fact that she texted you shows she likes you and she has enjoyed the date. Stop worrying for no reason!!

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    Default Re: Question about date 3

    Quote Originally Posted by Perez91 View Post
    Great advice guys!

    Went on date number two and K-closed towards the middle. We had a long make out session at my place and it was heading to an F-close but we both slowed down. I personally didn't want to rush it since I really like this girl as gf material.

    However, now post-date two I am not sure what to do next. I feel like I should be texting her daily at least once, but I can't seem to get myself to do this. Its been three years since I last had a relationship and one year since I had a friend with benefit.
    Hey Perez91, good job!

    By the way, you don't need to text her daily if you don't want.

    Nowadays, I only text my girl to come over to my house. Anything we want to talk about, we will talk when we meet.

    An relationship is will grow much better this way.

    If you don't like to text her daily, tell her about that. Be honest to her and keep an open mind about everything.

    Oh ya, you must set this tone (not texting her daily) in the first three month of your relationship as this period is the period she's still figuring out about you and what to expect from you.

    If you only start to set this tone after this period, be prepared for 'war'..Lol


    Hope this help,
    Naughty Napoleon


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