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Thread: What do you guys make of this?

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    Default What do you guys make of this?

    So, I message this girl on OKC, we've got like 41% in common or something so I say.

    "Oh dear, we don't match at all, do we?

    Let's grab a smoothie and talk about it. "

    Anyway she messages me back like 4 times in a row (I was off doing something else when she messaged, and she just kept...messaging.)

    "A beer maybe but no smoothies

    "I can tell you why we aren't a good match if you'd like

    "Please write your profile in first person, you come across like an arrogant dick...

    "Also, the part where you tell girls to message you if they find you attractive comes across a little insecure. If you know you're hot, you don't need to announce it. I'm sorry if this all sounds harsh but I feel like you are a totally different, more genuine person in real life and it's a shame it doesn't show through on your profile."

    I have no idea what to make of this, lol. I'm pretty sure she's being somewhat genuine with a b*tch shield at the same time. I figure I'll ride it out for a few hours and then comment something snarky back. Along the lines of:

    "Shame you didn't like it, I get lots of compliments on it though, so I appreciate the criticism, nice to hear an opposing viewpoint.

    Oh and why the hate on smoothies?"

    I'll think of more to add later, but what do you guys think? Or just run the other way? lol

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    Default Re: What do you guys make of this?

    "It's just so I can keep away all the unsophisticated woman who don't really get it Maybe we're a better match than the site thought. Suppose we could find out over drinks "

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    Default Re: What do you guys make of this?

    Yeah, I think what you plan to say in response is fine. Others on here may disagree though but I think you are on the right track.

    You want to balance things here. You don't want to come across like a nice guy/pushover but you also don't want to come across like an arrogant dick(like she says). It can take a while to find that happy medium. So be playful but don't feel as though you have to answer every question or address everything she says. Just stick to your own reality for the most part while tweaking and fine tuning your skills.

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    Default Re: What do you guys make of this?

    Bypass it all and just say 'sure lets go for a beer on ____'

    I would personally not try and wiggle your way out of what she's saying or try and challenge it - because she is right. Especially not with male logic. Just be confident and organise a date.

    She gave you some good advice. Use it.

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    Default Re: What do you guys make of this?

    Quote Originally Posted by whitedragon View Post
    Bypass it all and just say 'sure lets go for a beer on ____'

    I would personally not try and wiggle your way out of what she's saying or try and challenge it - because she is right. Especially not with male logic. Just be confident and organise a date.

    She gave you some good advice. Use it.
    I agree. Just move forward. Like he said and I like I said before you don't need to acknowledge what she said but keep it mind for the future. Just make sure she knows your down as long as she is.

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    Default Re: What do you guys make of this?

    Less Fluff more action stuff... Actions speak louder than words.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.


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