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    Default Re: Where do I go from here with girl from POF?

    Thanks guys for all the support. She responded favorably, and said "Jeeze, we're talking puppy pics, not d1ck pics! But ok fair enough. Let's just plan on hanging out within the next 3 days. Ok? Lol"

    I responded "Ha I'm busy today til 6 or 7, free after that, Thursday I'm headed up north to work on my truck all day, so it'd have to be today or tomorrow. Lmk."

    No response but none is really needed at this point. My angle is just gonna be to wait for her to text back. And basically do that every time she flakes on texting and hanging out (unless it gets ridiculous). Sort of send the message "I'm here and I wanna hang out, but I'm not gonna fall into the flake game, sorry." without actually saying something that awkward.

    Thoughts?

    EDIT: I sent this before T-Mal's suggestion, which looking back would have been a better way to handle it. Oh well, gotta go from here.

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    Default Re: Where do I go from here with girl from POF?

    Don't overlook the fact that she mentioned "d!ck pics".
    That's a subtle opening / invitation to escalate a bit.

    I'm not saying you should send her a d!ck pic, or start talking about sexting nudes of each other yet... but since she mentioned that, she's hinting that she's open to discussing more mature subjects.

    So calibrate the sexual overtones & innuendos & ramp up your flirting just a bit.

    I personally would make a comment about going skinny dipping, and needing lots of suncreen... and asking her if she would "help a friend out & apply it to your back".
    Or something like that.

    Just palyful, yet bold little fun comments along those lines can speed up the process of escalation.


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    Default Re: Where do I go from here with girl from POF?

    So I sent her a picture of an old guy on a news program (just googled it, had to sift through A LOT of...well, you'll see), his name on the screen was "Dick Pound"

    My caption was - Here is my pic. It's about Dick. That's what you meant right?

    Honestly this girl is a flake so at this point I'm experimenting, haha.

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    Default Re: Where do I go from here with girl from POF?

    From how she's responding, I think you did enough to get in her pants, and she wants that - you in her pants.

    One thing I learned yesterday was that it's our job as men (from society's point of view) to (1) "make shit happen, don't leave it to chance" and (2) make things certain (not leaving things between you two unclear).

    But getting a girl off POF for a meet up is a strong indicator that she's interested, and for HER to escalate FIRST? She's making it too easy for you brother lol
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    Default Re: Where do I go from here with girl from POF?

    You're WAY too reactive with this chick. Never punish compliance (calling her "Flaky McFlakester"). Also, find out her schedule, rather than throwing shit at the wall and hoping she's free. That's a recipe for getting turned down. Finally, all of this could have been solved if you slept with her on the first date. She wanted it. I mean, she wanted to hang the SAME DAY you got her number and it was at night. Drive messaging to a date.

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    Default Re: Where do I go from here?

    Quote Originally Posted by Legend View Post
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    Me: Ha you've got a lot of ground to cover before we start swapping pics, miss flaky mcflakester.
    You would have been better to respond with a "ya" or "maybe next time".

    She gave you the ball and you threw it back right away by sending a message that requires a response before a follow up text. You have essentially handcuffed yourself. Also, your are telling her that you have been bothered by her flaking, but still are interested at any chance she decides to give you. I get that it was an attempt to be playful but the timing and the flow was all wrong.

    Limit texts...it is like walking through a mine field. I used to practice recovery through IM by being deliberately boring or even insulting. I have managed to go from "Don't ever message me again!" to setting up a date within the same conversation...but that was on IM...texts are too static and sometimes you have to wait hours or days for a response. Also some women will not respond for a day to test if you are going to blow a gasket...so just stay cool. I like to be working on at 3 girls at a time minimum so you naturally get distracted and won't over think things.

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    Default Re: Where do I go from here with girl from POF?

    its easy dude, if she is messaging you back you have attraction-

    if you have attraction there is no reason to break rapport

    just get her number-> meet up with her -> qualify and sexually escolate

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