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    Default Re: Time for another POF profile critique

    ........ And NO PICTURES of you with a cat !!!!!!!!

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    Default Re: Time for another POF profile critique

    Update folks. Ok I took out the section that some of you thought sounded whiney. Even though I definitely do not in almost any circumstances believe in buying a woman anything(because in my opinion that means her value is higher than mine) with the possible exception of a drink, ice cream cone or cup of coffee, I nonetheless took out the "you wont get this from me" part.

    This is what I replaced it with:

    "If you are fun to be with and don't take yourself or others too seriously and are looking for someone who is compatible with you then I MIGHT (and that's a big MIGHT)be your man. More than likely you will just annoy me but that's the chance I'm willing to take. Who knows maybe you will grow on me. Either way it's a gamble but you don't win if you don't play."

    I kept the date section. Where I said I suck at yoga that was meant to be a joke and in that context I don't think there's anything wrong with saying that. It's not like I'm saying I suck at everything just something as relatively unimportant as yoga.

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    Default Re: Time for another POF profile critique

    Don't assume buying things for a girl lowers your value.

    Just never buy her something (drinks or otherwise) BEFORE you know her at least a little bit.

    BUT, after chatting for a few minutes it's totally cool to buy a drink. By that time, you're doing it because she's proven herself to be a cool chick.

    Then, when you go on a "date" it's TOTALLY OK to pay for the date because you know her even more by now.

    The mistake comes when guys try to BUY a girl;'s attention right in the very beginning.

    Example:
    Guy- "Hey, you're beautiful... what's your name?"
    Girl- "I'm Sarah".
    Guy- "Nice to meet you Sarah. Can I buy you a drink?"

    THAT is a no-no!
    But again, after you open a girl & chat her up & she's responding positively & flirting back with you, then it IS cool to buy her a drink.

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    Default Re: Time for another POF profile critique

    Is this because it's social convention to buy women things and they are conditioned to think a man is cheap or not worthy if he can't buy her something? I'm just wondering why so many people especially men in the PUA community think it's ok to buy her stuff(regardless of when you are doing it). I'm not her daddy and I'm not her enabler. I think if you buy her stuff you are setting up a type of relationship where she is dependent on you and you take on the role of the "provider." I'm not totally against it(it would depend on her attitude and her situation) and I agree it depends on when you do it but I'm just wondering if it is really necessary in order to get attractive women(love systems for example seems to think so).

    But anyway, I do agree about not buying a drink(or anything for that matter)too soon. I remember talking to two attractive women in a bar once a long time ago. One was a very beautiful blonde(HB9 or 10 can't remember). I asked the blonde if I could buy her a drink after talking to her for about maybe a minute or two and she said no. Then I talked to the other one(who wasn't quite as attractive but still about an HB8). This one said no also. I have never asked to buy a woman a drink since. LOL. Also there was a time in college where a girl wanted me to buy her a drink so I did. A little later on she mentioned that her "almost fiancÚ" was going to pick her up. Funny how she didn't mention him earlier. There are women who use men to buy them things such as dinners, drinks, gifts etc. This is why many men, including myself, are reluctant to shell out the money especially if we barely know them. I think many women want and expect a man to pay for them because they want some kind of investment in them. However, what are they going to do for us? What do we get in return? If it's not clear the interaction is going in a romantic or sexual direction then it's not appropriate to buy her things. Until I know it is heading in that direction I'm not willing to invest financially but that's just me(although apparently I'm not alone in thinking this).


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