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    Default How do I handle this to come off non needy and playful

    So I been working with this cute girl for 6 months and we flirt a lot. Some dude came in the other day asking for her said he was her friend so I said this "you're boyfriend came in the other day and she said what wait I don't even know that dude he keeps coming in and asking about me,she said he was stalking her and I said that's crazy well I work 3-8 so you don't have to worry .. The fireworks are here in my town today and I said are you going fireworks she said blah blah she would prolly walk up there after work and I said why don't you gimme your number and you can come park at my house you don't have to walk so far just in case.. She said yeah put her number in my phone no mind you I am supposed be working so I was like cool and left went back to work and still flirted with her all day like I always do.. I forgot to give her my number so she could call me after work so I text her ..

    Hey I just now realized I didn't give you my number earlier at work.. I wondered why you hadn't sent me a 100 messages yet lol 😉

    2 mins later I responded saying it was cyanide just in case you were like WTF ..

    No response I wanna know how to find out why she didn't text me back but not be AFC or needy about it to be no chalant and cool..

    Any advice???

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    Default Re: How do I handle this to come off non needy and playful

    Quote Originally Posted by cyanide View Post

    Hey I just now realized I didn't give you my number earlier at work.. I wondered why you hadn't sent me a 100 messages yet lol 😉

    2 mins later I responded saying it was cyanide just in case you were like WTF ..

    No response I wanna know how to find out why she didn't text me back but not be AFC or needy about it to be no chalant and cool..

    Any advice???
    Yeah I got feedback... Dafuq? Too long, and you double texted. I see what you were trying to do but it was executed poorly. One first text I usually send is this "Hey, it's (my name). Here's my number. Don't be texting me every 5 minutes :-p" Shorter and conveys they same idea you were trying to do, without the cringe. I rarely don't get a response from that.

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    Default Re: How do I handle this to come off non needy and playful

    I don't care about the text showing her at work tonight is what I need to show her I'm a confident and not bothered by her not replying .. Either that or she mistyped her number she is always messing up her words around me and I catch her checking me out when I'm not looking so those text don't have much to do with it.. She isn't the kinda girl that would ignore me for poor texting I almost bet that.. Anyone else know how to convey confident non neediness I this situation but still find out why she didn't text me back?

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    Default Re: How do I handle this to come off non needy and playful

    1) She may have actually not received the text
    2) The text was not strategic. Use it to prompt a response from her
    3) Have her text you first
    4) Don't bring this up at work unless you don't mind losing your job (I've had an old wing that thought he was calibrated at work and ended up losing his job because he wasn't)
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