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Thread: First online # close, criticisms needed!

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    Default First online # close, criticisms needed!

    Hello all, chated with this girl HB7 on the TINDER APP! She swiped first
    Got her number, texted her she replied right away I post the conversation

    TINDER:
    ME: gwauuuu congrats, you made a nice choice
    HER: Apparently so did you.
    ME: I only choose the best, consider yourself lucky! :]
    HER: Ur too cocky lmao
    ME: You don't even know me, that's an unfair assessment.
    HER: From what I've assessed so far! Lol
    Me: From two lines? It's not being cocky, it's confidence . Enough about me, I have yet to know about you ...
    HER:lmao what do you want to know
    ME: This app is lane and I don't get notifications, what's your number?
    HER -----------

    On text:

    ME: For some odd reason, I glad I ran into you on tinder- Joe 6:29pm
    HER: aww why lol 6:30
    ME: Take a guess 6:33
    HER: I dont know lol 6:33
    ME: Wow! Gave up so easily you suck, just one guess!! 6:37
    HER: Cause I'm cute haha 6:41
    ME: Hmm I liked your look, but you seem to have a little character 6:47
    HER: Maybe I do... 6:49
    ME: Telling from your first pic, you seem like you do what you want. But just curiouse what area are you in? 253 is like seattle? 7:46
    HER: location disclosed 7:46
    ME: ehh not to far, close to entering an are without signal. send me a pic of you so I know it's you when u text me. 7:53
    No response after that
    I lied about entering the area, I ran out of things to say lol
    How did you guy think I did, I knw I texted without an objective, i think I messed up.
    I want to get straight to the point and meet up, luckily I travel to her area because of work, I was thinkng I can meet her up during my lunch break.

    Should I text in the course of the next few days, im out of words o. what to tect her.
    im open to any advice!!

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    Default Re: First online # close, criticisms needed!

    Definately keep texting her. Your introduction was fine and playful but you're right, you need to be clear and confident in your objective. You're lost for things to text about because you haven't starting getting into stories, subjects or role playing. Conservatively it's ok to ask her a few questions about herself so you have something to lead off. If she says she likes art, start talking about art. If she likes music, start talking about music. It helps develop a connection. Or you can bounce straight into more abstract stories and role playing. Either way you eventually need to demonstrate some substance to who you are. Ask her out during a peak of good conversation. Or you can also be very direct with some girls 'Look I'll get straight to the point, I'd like to meet you for coffee. I'm travelling to your city on thursday, I will be fairly busy but I'm free for lunch. Lets meet'.

    I often just text girls with random things too like 'I'm thinking about constructing a fake beach in my office with a cabana bar - should I make a spa pool too?'. If I can get her interested or included in the fantasy I can lead off into all sorts of things 'If you come over you better wear a sexy bikini ' or 'if you look good in a bikini maybe you can come over for a sand castle meeting and pina colada's :P' etc. She has to engage in the conversation and qualify herself too 'Yes of course I look good in a bikini but I prefer vodka and orange'.

    Try and move on from 'you seem like...', 'Im glad I met you' etc when you don't actually know each other yet. In other words don't assume stuff, demonstrate it or ask her specifically about it. Again she must also demonstrate her desirable qualities to you.

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    Default Re: First online # close, criticisms needed!

    Thanks for helping me out man. I live in Washington State and I travel all the western part of it because of my job. I was gonna wait til tommarow to ask for Snapchat.
    She only lives 1 hr 30 min from me
    On the textimg part that im missing is asking questions about herself.
    Like what kind? lol I get your idea, but Im in a dead end about what to text.

    She didnt send me a pic of her, but im not too concerned about it.
    I should ignore it.

    Should I ask questions like

    " Besides being sacrosant, anytging intersting i should know about you"
    " Would you still have swiped left if I was fat"
    " Tell me, what is your favorite movie"

    You know what man, im a little lost, I suck at text game, but trial and error right?

    I not asking you guys to do things for me, I need a way to see things clearly.

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    Default Re: First online # close, criticisms needed!

    Just incase anyone can help here what happened.

    me: you just popped into my head...now stay out of it!!
    her:Lol
    me: Prob, not a good time but you don't watch or play any sports do you?
    her: I use to play soccer but not anymore.
    me: probably dont watch it either
    her: nope
    meamn you don't do anything fun or interesting... Boring!
    her: Yea I am
    me: dang compared to me, maybe!. to most girls I dunoo...
    her lol
    me: Besides being bpring, do you always talk that much?!
    her: I talk alot if I know you. Lol
    me: Tall, sexy, brillant, charming you do know me !!!, I just don't know you....yet!!
    her: lol no
    me no What?
    no response
    She answes and textx back almost immediately, at this point there is no interest. But she swiped first on tinder, and always responds. Shes probably shy?

    im about to ingore her all out and get on with my life, I texted her a day after our last conversation cause I was so busy i couldnt even touch my phone to see the time.

    At this point, I feel like being direct telling her im not one to play games if she wants to see me, great
    ill set up a meet. but really im a busy guy and such, she lives like 80 miles from me
    so i wouldnt want to waste my time, especially GAS!

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    Default Re: First online # close, criticisms needed!

    Just mix it up. It's ok to be cocky and sarcastic etc but it's also good to be serious too. Humour and playlfulness is just one aspect. Show her other sides of who you are.

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    Default Re: First online # close, criticisms needed!

    You're trying too hard. You keep qualifying yourself about what type of person you are. That stuff should be conveyed with how you talk/text not by bluntly saying it. Asking for a pic is odd. There's no reason for it aside from you showing a lot of interest. If you're not pushing for a meetup though, every conversation will eventually end, so you're doing fine if this is what you're aiming for.
    The Official Tinder Playbook--> http://conquerdatingapps.co m <--Stop swiping, start hooking up

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    Default Re: First online # close, criticisms needed!

    You're texting way more than she is texting you. Try to talk less about yourself and give some light teases over text then set up a date asap once you find her availability. Don't ask for pics over text when you haven't even met her yet


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